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Judy Gavin

Petaluma, California

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Judy Murphy Gavin

A woman who selflessly dedicated her life to her family, friends, and patients, Judy died on May 21 at home in Petaluma, surrounded by loved ones, after a courageous battle with cancer. Born in Concord, Massachusetts on December 19, 1952, to Edward and Marjorie Murphy, Judy was one of eight children. She came from a family that was larger than life in personality, humor, and love for each other. Judy is survived by her daughter, Bridget Gavin of Seattle, Washington, sisters Pammy Murphy of Chester, New York and Jeanmarie Murphy of San Francisco, her brother Peter Murphy of Southboro, MA, her extended family in the Gavins, the Keefhavers, the McInerneys, along with her many cousins, uncles, aunts, nieces, nephews, and a multitude of friends, all of whom mourn the loss of one of the finest women we have ever known. A hallmark of Judy's life was her selflessness, so it was no surprise that she chose a career in nursing. After receiving her nursing degree in MA, Judy moved to San Francisco, where she worked as a nurse in the Emergency Department at San Francisco General, and then later at Marin General and Novato Community Hospital. Judy's skill, calm demeanor, breathtaking smile, and humor not only eased the suffering of thousands of Bay Area patients over the years, but also resulted in lifetime friendships with many doctors and nurses at these hospitals. It was at SF General in 1976 that she met the love of her life, Tom Gavin, an SFFD paramedic. The two later married and started a family, settling in Petaluma with their daughter Bridget. In Judy, Tom found a perfect partner to travel the world with, often with golf clubs in tow. The two entertained family and friends for years in their backyard, as Tom barbequed and teased the guests while Judy poured the drinks and made everyone feel at home. Judy was also an amazing mother to Bridget-compassionate, steady, and always good humored. Judy and Bridget had a very special relationship, akin to sisters, particularly after Tom's untimely passing in 2006. Bridget, following in her mother's footsteps, is now a nurse in Seattle.


A celebration of Judy's life is planned for June 3, at 11 a.m., at St. Vincent's Church, 35 Liberty Street, Petaluma. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations in Judy's name to the American Cancer Society at 1-800-227-2345 or to the Tom Gavin Memorial Scholarship at St. Vincent de Paul High School in Petaluma.


Adobe Creek Funeral Home


Petaluma, California


707.789.9000


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To the entire Murphy/Gavin family,
I am not sure why I tried to find Judy yesterday. Just a feeling I guess. When I saw this notice my mind couldn't grasp it and my heart was sad. As others have said, what a wonderful, caring woman she was. We were nurses together "in the day" in San Francisco. We traveled to Cancun together and had such a fabulous time. I was lucky to know her and will miss her everyday.

Judy was a caring and loving person. She had a joyfulness about her. I wish I would have gotten to know her better. God Bless her loving family as you have her legacy to hold on to forever.

Bridget: So sorry to hear of your mom's passing. A sweet lady and neighbor. She will be missed. Barb Bernardo and David Counter

Judy is a cherished spirit at NCH and she's very dearly missed.

Jean Marie,Pammy,Bridget, and all of Judy's family. Judy was a friend of my youth and a bright warm memory. She always brought a smile. I always looked forward to spending time with Judy and her sisters. Judy, Tom, and Bridget were a gift of a family.

Bridget, Peter, Pammy, and Jeanie,
There aren't words available to say how sad I am about Judy's passing. I will lways remember the fun times in Lincoln, especially the 4th of July and all those floats we always helped with. And of course, all those 45 games in which Uncle Bill and Auntie Fran usually cheated. But not Judy. Looking forward to seeing everyone in July. Love to you all and God Bless.

I still can't grasp the concept that I'm seeing the name 'Judy Gavin' here!!
My heart (& of course, Doog's too) is so saddened by losing such a fantastic woman!! She & Tom will never be forgotten by many family members & a gazillion friends!
Our LOVE to you Bridget (& Pammy, Jeanmarie & Peter)...we hope you can feel the hugs from way over here in VT!!?
Much Love...Doog & Carol xoxo

Bridget,
I was deeply sadden to here of your Moms passing. I know you don't me/us the Verdi's but we/I spent so many great times at the Murphy's in Lincoln as kids. Judy and and I were best of cousins at that time. I will always remember her and those special times. Love you and to all.

Kathleen Snider
Judy's passing is such a sad experience for me. She was one of the most positive nurses that I have ever worked with at Marin General.! She made my job as Administrative Nursing Supervisor so easy. She always went above and beyond the call of duty, and always so willingly with a smile on her face. May she rest in peace.