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Julian Baker Obituary
Baker, Jr.
June 22, 1939 - February 16, 2011
Raleigh
Julian Tucker Baker, Jr., 71, died peacefully at his home in Raleigh, on February 16, 2011. Julian was born in Raleigh on June 22, 1939, son of the late Julian T. Baker, and Nancy Fish Baker. He attended Episcopal High School, graduating in 1957, and the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, where he received his BA in 1961. Julian subsequently served in the United States Navy from 1962-1966, as a Naval Aviation Observer with VQ-2 in Rota, Spain. He then attended the University of Texas School of Law, graduating in 1969.
Julian lived a long and contented life; he always was willing to help those in need. He enjoyed his many friends, his frequent travels, his photography collection, and his volunteer work.
He is survived by his brother, Benjamin W. Baker, of Raleigh; his sister, Nancy G. Baker, of Richmond, VA; his nephew, Benjamin W. Baker, Jr. and wife, Erin, and their three children, of Raleigh.
The family will receive friends Tuesday evening from 5 -,7 p.m., at Brown-Wynne Funeral Home, 300 Saint Mary's St. Raleigh.
A memorial service will be held Wednesday, February 23, 2011, at 11 a.m., at Christ Episcopal Church, 120 East Edenton Street. Raleigh. Burial will follow at Historic Oakwood Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in Julian's name, to the Fisher House Foundation, Inc., 111 Rockville Pike, Suite 420, Rockville, MD 20850, [email protected] ; or to the USO of North Carolina, Inc., P.O. Box 91536 Raleigh, NC 27675, www.uso-nc.org.
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Jim and Rhoda Bednar
November 24, 2012
We just learned of Ltjg Julian's passing. I was stationed with Ltjg Julian at VQ2 in Rota, Spain, worked for him in the communications dept, he spoke very highly of his family, he had a quick wit, and a real friend to the enlisted during work and parties. We spoke of him during our 30 yr VQ2 reunion in 1996. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
May you find some peace and comfort in your memories of happier times.
He will be missed though never forgotten,
May he rest in peace.
Suited up for EA-3B flight
David Hinchy
November 23, 2012
Julian (Ensign)and I flew in the EA-3B in VQ-2 in 1964-65. He was funny, sharp, kind to us enlisted guys, and a great Naval Officer. Just found out about his passing...will let shipmates on Facebook (VQ2 1963-1966 group) know. I am glad I knew him.
Todd Shea
May 31, 2011
Julian was there to offer a hand to me during a very challenging period in my life. He taught me how to be of service to my fellows and my community. His friendship is cherished and will never be forgotten. God bless you and thank you Julian.
Our community has lost an outstanding member.
Mikel Bullard
March 15, 2011
Our friendship extended almost 30 years. You helped me make sense of much of my very complexed world. I'll never forget your always encouraging words. We shared many likenesses: art, travel, discovery of other lands and cultures, and of course good food. I am found with few words as I just discovered your transitioning. May you be at peace for ever lasting eons. I grieve your passing, but too will pass. Full of smiles for you..
Bill Donovan
March 6, 2011
I only learned of Julian's death a week ago last Saturday at the HRC NC dinner. I met Julian through his volunteering and as a community leader in Raleigh NC. He was always cherished and a gift to us all. Several years in a row The Crape Myrtle Festival was lucky enough to have his help. Julian was secluded in a back conference room counting the
monies from the Crape Myrtle galas. His parties at Bishop's Park were legendary. You have shown by example and have inspired me to live a better life. I will continue to try to have my best life in honor of you. You have crossed over the rainbow bridge where you are free at last. I will remember you always!
March 3, 2011
Julian has been my dear friend ever since Mrs. Ligon's kindergarten and Ravenscroft School in Raleigh. We shared wonderful times at Morehead, at the Lake, and at Chapel Hill. We kept up through the years with telephone calls, letters, and visits. He had an artist's eye and a gift for friendship. I shall miss him more than I can say and send my love and deepest sympathy to his family.
Louise Chapman Hoffman
Stephen Cohen
February 28, 2011
I first met Julian at one of the photography art fairs I participate in (and organize as well). His gentlemanly manner, and his wonderful Southern accent, was a welcome change to what is often a tiring event. His interest, enthusiasm and excitement for photography was always welcome. His eye for excellent work was impeccable. I will miss him. My condolences to his family and friends. The only consolation is that he will live on in the memories of all those who knew him and who were touched by him.
Mary W
February 28, 2011
Thoughts and prayers for Julian's family. Julian was the most giving and loving person I have ever met. His great joy for life and for giving of himself was his hallmark. He will be missed greatly by those touched by his gentle spirit.
February 26, 2011
My friend, I miss you.
Chris Hand
February 23, 2011
Julian made such difference in so many lives. He was such a warm & giving person who truly loved life & saw the beauty in everything & everyone around him. He was such an inspiration to me & I feel both grateful & privileged to have had the opportunity to know him. He will be greatly missed.
Chris Hand
Raleigh NC
Rick Booth
February 23, 2011
Julian enhanced the lives of all who were fortunate enough to have encountered him during their journey through life. I certainly hope to share his company again when it is my time to move to the next phase.
Adam Gendell
February 23, 2011
Oh gentle southern soilder, your generous nature, compassionate spirit and optimistic view enriched the lives of all who knew you. It was an honor to have shared in your journey and I will miss you for-ever and a day. Rest in peace, my dear friend.
Julie
February 23, 2011
Julian, you were a beautiful human being. I loved hearing about your trips on archeological digs and stories of the history of Raleigh and Baker's pond. I will miss you.
Bruce Yates
February 22, 2011
Julian , you were my guru and I will miss you forever.
Jeremy "Jay" Martin
February 22, 2011
Julian was a man who never hesitated to help others. He has helped me in many ways and I'll always remember him for it.
Missy Finger
February 22, 2011
Julian was an extraordinary spiritual man. His kind heart and peaceful presence was inspiring. I loved talking about his meditation practices. It is a shock for me to hear of his passing since I am removed from his daily life
Betty DeLorenzo
February 21, 2011
Julian was my beloved friend of almost fifty years. We shared the fun and crazy days of our youth and helped each other through the aches and pains of growing older. I will miss him all the rest of my days. Goodbye mi novio.
February 21, 2011
I was so saddened to hear of Julian's passing. I enjoyed sharing with him our passion for collecting photographs. Whenever he came into our gallery he was a breath of fresh air. He had this child like curiosity and thirst for knowledge. We discussed images and life. They became one.
Julian was a very special man
peter fetterman
February 21, 2011
I was so saddened to hear of Julian's passing. I enjoyed sharing with him our passion for collecting photographs. Whenever he came into our gallery he was a breath of fresh air. He had this child like curiosity and thirst for knowledge. We discussed images and life. They became one.
Julian was a very special man
Kathy Bundy
February 21, 2011
Julian's kindness and gentle demeanor were a blessing for us all. He and I walked a similar path for many, many years. I always knew I could count on him for truth, for a pithy reminder, and tender hugs.
Jill Kidd
February 21, 2011
I will hold you and your family in the light. You always had a no nonsense way of looking at things and sharing your thoughts. Thank you so much for your wisdom and your gentleness.
Michelle Masson
February 21, 2011
Dear Julian's family,
I knew the "silver fox" as Danny Squires dubbed him from some of the most memorable years of my life, when I resided on Park Ave. Julian was usually immaculately dressed and did not look the part of the typical Park Avenue resident. He was like a dignitary, I guess I could say that Julian was like the mayor of our street. He and Jim Duncan held court at the Focal Point Antique store and we loved them and revered them, as they were our wise elders. He loved to laugh and was game for most any of our adventures. He took any ribbing in great stride and never wavered from his kind and thoughtful ways. Rest in Peace, good friend.
February 21, 2011
As a Park Ave. alum, Julian was an important part of my life for many years. He was a true Southern gentleman, and I remember fondly wonderful days at the lake house, and late nights at his Park Ave. home. My thoughts go to his family, and to all his friends past and present.
Sheryl Moore Goodspeed
Ray Tillery
February 21, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with Julian's family. I met Julian many years ago through mutual friends his kindness and youthful energy made him stand out heads above others. My memories of those years in Raleigh will always include Julian and Bishops Park. Peace be with you my friend!
Kathy Springston
February 21, 2011
Dear Nancy and family,
Rex & I keep you in thought. We know Julian was special to you all and will be missed. May you find comfort in each other's arms right now and know that one day his will embrace you again. He was blessed to have you as a sister, Nancy, which I can say because you are like a sister to me. Take care. With love,
John D. Dill
February 21, 2011
We will miss you,but we will never forget your wise and gentle soul.Peace be with you,dear brother. David D.
Eric K.
February 20, 2011
Though I only knew you a few short years, you had a great impact on me that I will always remember. Thank you Julian.
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