Pender Kristi L. Pender, age 34, of Champlin, died May 8, 2003, at her home. Her incredibly brave journey with breast cancer has finally ended after 21 months. Kristi's perseverance to fight and ability to smile through the toughest times gave insight to her strength; her constant caring for others was a true testament to her character. Preceded in death by her father, John E. Pender, and her grandparents. Survived by her mother, Joan Butler of Waterford MI, sister Debi Hall of Questa NM, brother Tom Pender of Macon GA, aunts, uncles, cousins, and many friends. Kristi was an RN at HCMC's Emergency Dept. for the past 8 yrs, a place where after traveling across the country she was able to call home. Her knowledge, compassion, and caring for not only her patients but her coworkers and profession will be greatly missed. A special thank you to the staff at HCMC's Cancer Center, and to all of those who supported and cared for Kristi during her illness. IT'S ALL GOOD! A celebration of Kristi's life will be upcoming at Pillsbury Auditorium, HCMC. In lieu of flowers, memorials preferred to the Kristi Pender Nursing Fund.
This obituary was originally published in the Star Tribune.
While I didn't know Kristi, I felt like I did through her cousin, Kari McKinnon. I know she was a very special person who fought long and hard. I know her family and friends really miss her. I know I do. Thanks for the encouragement and strength that you gave all of us.
Penny Beasley
May 21, 2003 | Duluth, GA
Quiche:
I have no words. For a change. No human expression is suitable to describe your splendor on earth or your radiance in heaven. I ask only that you kiss us on the cheek every once in a while, so we feel your presence. Rest and breathe deep, and I will see you again. Promise.
Tom (Brudder) Pender
May 20, 2003 | Macon, GA
I worked with Kristi in California. She was always a great friend and someone you could count on to be there for you when you needed help. She showed compassion to her patients and coworkers.
You are in my prayers, Kristi.
Terri K
May 18, 2003 | Lancaster, CA
Kristi,
You gave me strength in my sadness. You showed me how to smile through my grief. I still wear the gift you gave me for Kelley. I will miss your smile, your bravery, and your compassion. Thank you for touching my life.
deb maestri
deb maestri
May 18, 2003 | Lakeville,, MN
Kristi girl,
To a Great Nurse, Co-worker, and Friend. You were an inspiration to us all! I know you are at peace now. I hope you soar in Heaven with your angel wings. Though you were taken from this Earth much too soon, YOU will never be forgotten!!
Jodi Mager
May 17, 2003 | Apple Valley, MN
Kristi,
You are my inspiration!
I can still see you sitting in my office and
talking on Tuesday mornings when you came to pick up the charts for ranking for Critical Care (Stab)
Conference. We chatted about many
things in your life and mine.
Always a smile on your face.
Thank you for the hugs at your benefits. Now that I am going through chemo for my breast cancer, I think of you and your incredible courage. I only wish I could have talked with...
Joan Martin
May 15, 2003 | BC, MN
Thoughts and prayers to all of Kristi's family and friends. She is in a better place without pain or stress now. It's a great blessing.
Jody Jacobs
May 15, 2003 | Osseo, MN
Dear Ms. Pender,
Congratulations!! You're finally in Heaven. I bet it's so fun up there. If you're still in line for your wings, just remember that everyone on Earth loves you so much and we all would like to thank you for the strength and courage you have shown. You were the most excellent example of hope, something that this world needs right now.
We're sad that you had to leave us, but guess what, IT'S ALL GOOD!! Jocelyn
Jocelyn Smith
May 15, 2003 | Minneapolis, MN
My Beautiful Baby Girl,
I'm sure that you are happy now that you have your wings and are among your angels that left this earth before you. I have visioned Daddy, Grandma & Grandpa "Mac", Grandma & Grandpa Pender and the ugliest dog in heaven, Brutus, greeting you upon your arrival in Heaven. You were an amazing person in whom I was pleased and proud. The love that has carried us through so much as a family will also carry us through your passing from us on earth. I promise not...
Joan Butler
May 14, 2003 | White Lake, MI
