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Gone too soon! You will be missed by many
Guy Bower
November 06, 2025 | Friend


Wichita, Kansas
May 18, 1948 – Oct 27, 2025 (Age 77)
Lily Ashcom May 18, 1948 - October 27, 2025 Wichita, Kansas - Lily Ashcom, 77, passed away surrounded by loved ones on October 27, 2025 in Wichita, Kansas. Lily was born on May 18, 1948 in Awase, Okinawa, Japan to Stanley and Hiroko Kiyan. The eldest of seven, she loved dancing and keeping her...
Read MoreGone too soon! You will be missed by many
Guy Bower
November 06, 2025 | Friend

Heavenly Blossoms Bouquet VASE INCLUDED
Melissa Sparks from Longboat Key Club and Resort
November 05, 2025
We will miss Lily, her warm smile, sharp wit and passion for life. Our deepest condolences to you, Tom and all the family.
Jocelyne and Georges Ausseil
November 05, 2025 | Friend
Lily was one in a million. She was smart, worldly, generous, kind and beautiful both inside and out. She was the life of the party, friendly, and comfortable in any social situation. Best of all, she was my sister-in-law and I cherished our friendship. She was loved and she will be greatly missed.
Deborah Ashcom
November 05, 2025 | Family
What a wonderful lady, very generous and caring. So glad to have seen Lily during our brief visit in August. Sincere condolences to Tom and family.
Paul, Julie and Luke Smith
November 04, 2025 | Friend
My deepest condolences to you and your family. You are all in my prayers. So very sorry for your Loss
Ana Rodriguez
November 04, 2025 | Work
Dr. Ashcom my deepest sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your wife Lily. I know you truly loved & cared for her by our conversations, whenever I had an appointment with you. God bless!
Juanita M. Avalos
November 04, 2025 | Other
Naomi, Bob, Veronica and Jasper, Please know that I am so very sorry for your loss. The world will not be the same without this beautiful Lily in its garden. Love and peace, Jane Collins Saunders
Jane G Saunders
November 04, 2025 | Friend
Deepest sympathy, Tom, and to the entire family. May she rest in eternal peace
Mike and Julie Lievens
November 03, 2025 | Work