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Lindsay Leigh Bender

Harrisburg, Pennsylvania

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Lindsay Leigh Bender May 12, 1981 - April 11, 2007

Lindsay liked to spell her name with a "y", so that is how we will refer to her. Always challenging her friends and family, Lyndsay was a firecracker. She loved life, people, family, sports, and a good old fashioned debate. She was...

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This is the last day for Lindsay’s Guest book and so I want to make one more entry.
First of all I would like to thank Katie (Sharretts) Desserres who started this book for us. I know Katie spent many years being another big sister to Lindsay and we are grateful to her for her many acts of caring.
I also want to thank all of those family and friends who have made entries in this. It was comforting to know that she was so loved and remembered by so many. We still feel her spirit...

I guess I wanted to write in this book one more time before it is closed. My sister, you are forever with me. I feel your presence everyday, and I know in my heart that you have found peace and contentment with God. I will love you forever and always. Until I see you again ~ Megan

Dear Michelle, I can't believe it has been 2 years. I think of Lindsay so often now that my own daughter is attending Kutztown University. I can't even begin to imagine the emptiness you must feel, especially today, being mother's day. You and your family remain in my thoughts and prayers.

Dear Charlie, Michelle, Charlotte & Megan,
I am thinking of you & Lyndsay and sending caring thoughts your way. xoxo

Hello beautiful,
So we just had our family christmas party, and I couldn't help but think about you every 5 minutes, and wish you were there. I know u were watching down over all of us, and secretly laughing at how crazy we all are!! we miss u every single day with every piece of our hearts. i love you, and miss u tons. xoxo, Cousin, Kristen

lindz........just to a letter today....addressed to you parents.....about someone who was working in washington and passed by the area........you have NO IDEA HOW YOUR MISSED.........HOPE YOUR IN A GOOD PLACE.......WRITE ME BACK SOMEHOW.......luv uncle joe

There are so many things that happen every day that I know would make you laugh hysterically. I just can't ever believe that I can't tell you them. I wish I could be there for Char in your place.....bu tI could never be the same as you. I remember that Heather and I used to put her in her Easter dresses at your house and you woul dgo crazy...or our Prom 1985 pictures in momma chelle's leather outfit and dresses. I love you and your family more each day and not a twist or turn in my life will...

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Bender, Megan, and Charlotte,
I just wanted to let you all know I am always thinking about you. Not a single day goes by without Lindsay popping into my thoughts. I love the family photo, you are a beautiful family!

The Bender Family in Duck, NC - 2006