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Lois Frazier Obituary
December 20, 1921 - May 1, 2021
Fair Oaks, California - Lois passed away peacefully, her family by her side, on the pleasant afternoon of May 1, following a brief illness. Lois was born in St. Paul, Minnesota and migrating west with her family as a young girl. After graduating from San Juan High School in Citrus Heights and attending a local business college, she was employed at the Sacramento Air Depot. She met and married Staff Sgt. Wendell Frazier in North Sacramento. Becoming an Air Force bride they travelled base to base across the USA and Europe. Their first child Ruth Ann (Chesnut) came along in 1947 followed by Bruce in 1952. Retiring in 1961 and moving to Fair Oaks the family became residents of "Haverman" country on Magnolia St. She will be remembered most for associations she had with her fellow Fair Oakians in the Women's Thursday Club (life time member), Co-Founder of the Fair Oaks Theatre Festival, Fair Oaks Historical Society, Fair Oaks Foundation for Leisure and the Arts, Chamber of Commerce and a member of the San Juan Alumni Association. You might say she had her fingers in all of the Fair Oaks pies (COOKIES). Lois is preceded in passing by her husband Wendell, parents John and Katherine Haverman, brother Earl Haverman, sisters Elsie Murphy, Caroline Jones, Katy Netherton and Violet Williamson. Survivors include daughter Ruth Ann Chesnut (Mike), son Bruce Frazier. Granddaughters Stephanie Hale (Steve) and Kimberly DeGiorgis (Shad). Great-Grandsons Jake and Justin Hale and Tristan and Austin DeGiorgis. And many nieces and nephews. In lieu of flowers please make donations in her honor to the Fair Oaks Historical Society or F.A.F.L.A. We all loved her very much and will miss her every day. Funeral at Mount Vernon at 1 pm Monday May 10 with celebration of life following immediately at the Fair Oaks Community Club House. Private interment in the Fair Oaks Cemetery.
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Nina A.R. Potter
May 1, 2022
My favorite auntie in the whole world, thank you for sharing your love and kindness with me in my very early years. You gave me some fantastic memories in a time of my life when love and acceptance was practically non-existent for me and you did it because you genuinely wanted to, not because you were made to or just tolerating me. No, you truly are a remarkable person and I miss you very much. I wish I could have had a chance to speak with you and spend time with you after all these years because you never have slipped my mind at all. I really enjoyed the science museum you took me to. I tell people that story all the time. And of the time you spent being silly with me and telling me stories of the times before when you were little. I love you and come see me now that you are able to go anywhere and do everything you never got a chance to in life. As you once told me, the living are foolish for missing those who have passed for they are the ones now waiting for us. They are the ones who are sad because they know what we're going to have to go through every day til our time but like a parent who is watching their children grow, they cannot intervene because they know what lesson there is for us to learn from the hardships we endure. Just know that you are never truly alone for your ancestors are hurting and laughing beside you as you hurt and laugh. So I won't say goodbye because goodbye is forever but I will say that I will see you later since we will all have a chance to catch up when the time comes.
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