Photo courtesy of Clavin Funeral Home - Brooklyn
Brooklyn, New York
Madeline Helen Whalen (nee Smith)
Madeline passed away suddenly but peacefully in her sleep. A lifelong resident of Bay Ridge, she was the youngest daughter of the late John and Helen Smith.
Madeline was the beloved wife of Peter and a devoted mother to Peter Jr. and Victoria Patricia. She also cherished her three dogs, Gibbs, Rossie, and Cooper. She was predeceased by her brother, Thomas John, and her sister, Patricia Anne. She is survived by her sister, Catherine Stropoli, as well as many nieces, nephews, and cousins.
Madeline grew up in the parish of Our Lady of Perpetual Help, where she attended both grammar school and high school. During her time there, she played basketball, participated in softball, and sang in the choir, forming many lifelong friendships and cherished memories.
Professionally, Madeline worked on Wall Street, initially at W.E. Pollock, followed by Swiss Bank, and she retired from Barclay Bank. After her retirement, she dedicated her time to caring for her two children and her mother, Helen.
In 1984, Madeline met the love of her life, Peter, and they were married in 1992. They welcomed their son, Peter Jr., in 1995 and their daughter, Victoria Patricia, in 2002.
Madeline made lasting friendships through her involvement in NYPD Emerald Society trips, annual camping trips to KOA campgrounds in Newburgh, NY, and her children's sporting events and extracurricular activities. She was a lifelong fan of the New York Mets, New York Rangers, and New York Giants. She treasured her family, maintaining connections through gatherings, phone calls, social media interactions, and quick visits. She will be greatly missed by her family and friends.
May she rest in peace.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in Madeline's memory to the Hudson Valley Humane Society.
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Visitation
Tuesday, October 8, 2024
2 - 4 PM and 7 - 9 PM
Clavin Funeral Home
7722 4th Avenue
Brooklyn, NY 11209
Complimentary Valet Parking Available
Funeral Mass
Wednesday, October 9, 2024
9:45 AM
Saint Anselm R.C. Church
356 82nd Street
Brooklyn, NY 11209
Cemetery
Resurrection Cemetery
361 Sharrott Avenue
Staten Island, NY 10309
My sincere condolences to the whalen family.
I did not know Madeline passed away recently. Many years ago I met Madeline with Pete and their beautiful family during a 911 memorial. She was very kind I could tell she had a beautiful soul.i know she will be missed by all the lives she touched.May God continue to shine light upon her family with strength and peace.
May she rest in peace.
Rose Costanzo
May 15, 2025 | Cleveland, OH
To Peter, Peter Jr, and Tory, I was very shocked to hear of Madeline's untimely passing. A lovely lady taken too soon. I will miss her on Facebook! A donation has been made to Hudson Valley Humane Society.
Patricia Lane
October 18, 2024 | Roscommon | Family
Pete liz and I are sorry for your loss. We live you stay strong.
Mike Kennedy
October 09, 2024 | BROOKLYN, NY | Neighbor
Our deepest sympathy to Pete Tori Pete Jnr and the extended Whalen family. We have wonderful memories of Madeline and the family in Sligo, Leitrim and Roscommon and the enjoyable times we shared.
Ger & Lorna Moylan
October 09, 2024 | Sligo Ireland | Friend
Sincere sympathy to you Pete and family. We have great memories of Madeline's time in Sligo, and all the fun times we shared.
Simeon and Maeve Whittington
October 08, 2024 | Sligo, Ireland | Friend
Dear Peter, Peter Jnr. and Victoria
Sincerest of condolences to you all on the loss of Madeline, what a terrible loss to you and the world, we only met in person a few times but i felt I knew her a lifetime such was the warmth of her presence and social media posts.
Ar dheis De go raibh si.
Emer Lane McGrath
October 08, 2024 | Ballinrobe | Family
ONLY MET HER A FEW TIMES BUT A VERY SWEET LADY AND VERY SAD TO HEAR ABOUT HER PASSING, MAY SHE REST IN PEACE.
John Wilde
October 08, 2024 | Massapequa Park, NY
GOD BLESS YOU,R I.P.
Thomas O'Connor
October 08, 2024 | CLEARWATER, FL
SENDING CONDOLENCES
JO BLOOD
JOBLOOD BLOOD
October 08, 2024 | Friend