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Malvin Wessel Obituary
On September 16, 2016, at almost 83 years of age, God unexpectedly called Malvin Lee Wessel home to His green pastures of Heaven. Mal, a Korean War Veteran, was an FBI Senior Resident Agent whose territory covered San Bernardino County. He was a member of Barstow's government holding the offices of City Councilman and Mayor. Mal, along with wife Connie, were members of the business community and founded Hi-Desert Charities and the Barstow Rodeo Stampede. They worked together to help countless individuals and organizations. Mal is preceded in death by his parents, Harry and Ruth Wessel; son, Joseph Wessel; daughter, Lynn Wessel-Tanza; and grandson, Steven Wessel-Tanza. He is survived by his wife of 61 years, Constance Ruth Flowerbird Wessel; daughters, Terry Saenz and Shawn Wessel; nine grandchildren, nine great-grandchildren, and several other family members and friends. Services will be held Tuesday, October 4, 2016 at 11 a.m. at First Baptist Church of Barstow. In lieu of flowers, please donate to his non profits: Barstow Rodeo Group and/or Hi-Desert Charities at Desert Community Bank of Barstow.
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Memories and Condolences
for Malvin Wessel
Kristina Marquardt
October 23, 2016
To Laura, Vanessa and family,
Remember the good times you shared with your grandfather. He will live in your hearts forever.
Your childhood friend,
Kristina Lee Marquardt
October 11, 2016
Connie,My thoughts and prayers are with you. He was a great guy..I have memories of so many years ago. Someday, May your present sorrow, be replaced with cherished memories. Love from Susie (lefty) Grant and family.
Monta Rowe
October 6, 2016
Mal was one of the best! I have been truly blessed by his and Connie's friendship.
Mal always had a pleasant greeting and a genuine caring for your well being. He will be missed by all who knew him.
We pray that God lends His Angels to comfort Connie and her family during this sad time. Our heartfelt condolences go out to Connie and all of Mal's family.
Godspeed Mal until we all meet again!
With Love,
Monta Sue and John W. Rowe
Lynn (Geske) Shipley
October 5, 2016
When our family moved to Barstow I was lucky enough to meet Shawn. My parents didn't know anyone here and were not allowed to do many things. I can remember that when Mal called the house to invite me along with their activities my Dad would always say, "Why of course Mr. Wessel, Lynn can go along." Shawn and I would squeal in the back ground knowing that the fun was about to begin! I think he was the only one I was allowed out after dark with. I loved, loved, loved being with the Wessel's. I used to take such pride when an unknown person would mistake me for one of Mal's girls (of course we looked more like each other than the Wessel girls did)! He would wink my way and smile and own me just like one of his girls. It was magical for a grade school girl. He is a huge part of my childhood memories and I will miss his "honey bun" greetings. How fortunate are we to have known someone that makes saying good bye so difficult. Love you Dad.....(I mean Mal). XOXOXO
Wayne & Michelle Cunningham
October 5, 2016
Our heartfelt prayers go out to the entire Wessel family, especially Connie.
I had the opportunity to sit on the very first committee for the Barstow Rodeo with Mal. He loved Barstow and only wanted the best for the community. Such a kind man.
Debra Farver
October 5, 2016
To Malvin's family,
I'm sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
mr mrs albert ramirez sr.
October 3, 2016
our thought and prayers for Mal and his family+ Barstow lost a true friend that gave so much of his time to the city and high desert
william suval
October 3, 2016
The High Desert lost a true pioneer and gentleman..A good man, that I had the pleasure of knowing
Lola Kirk
October 2, 2016
My condolences to Connie and family. Mal was so very special to me and I will miss him tremendously. Thank you for being there for me alwwys, you meant the world to me Mal. I love you!
October 1, 2016
I spent many years side by side with Mal and Connie, working the Rodeo and the Poker Runs, I miss him, he was a great man, and helped so many in this community for so long, love you Mal.
Burt Banks (Newberry Springs)
October 1, 2016
Our thoughts and prayers for Mal and his family. He helped so many people and we appreciate him taking the time with his contacts and knowledge to obtain the gold star for our Mother Ramona Griego. The toys for tots tv telethons were great for the community and for the kids receiving a gift. Marie Griego James and Tommy James.
Hester McCarty
October 1, 2016
Such a great man and friend. You will be missed.
stephen carter
September 23, 2016
Good bye my great friend. You will be missed by so many. Happy Trails in your new home in heaven.
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