Mark -Charette-Obituary

Mark L. Charette

Millburn, New Jersey

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The Handy Man
Mark Charette, who worked as an insurance broker at Marsh & McLennan in Morristown, N.J., was handier than the handy man.

Task by task, he was renovating his 120-year- old Victorian house in Millburn, N.J. He redid the heating system, much of the plumbing and put a cathedral ceiling in his bedroom.

Mr. Charette, 38, was at a morning meeting at Marsh's offices in the World Trade Center on Sept. 11.

He met his wife, Cheryl Desmarais, at the University of Pennsylvania. They began as engineering majors and finished with business degrees. He was in the Navy R.O.T.C. to save his parents the expense of his college education, his wife said. Then it was five years as an officer on a nuclear submarine, while Ms. Desmarais worked as a consultant in New York.

Even with his work, travel and home renovating, he made his family the center of his life. At home in New Jersey or at their vacation house in Vermont, Mr. Charette spent hours hiking, skiing and swimming with his three children.

He made time on Saturday mornings to take Lauren, 8, Andrew, 6, and Jonathan, 2, to McDonald's for breakfast, giving his wife a break. "This is your time," he would tell his wife. "You are not invited."

Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on December 1, 2001.


Mark Charette, 38, mornings were for kids

On Saturdays, Mark Charette loved to load his three children into the family car and take them to McDonald's for breakfast and playtime with dad.

As a senior vice president at Marsh, the insurance brokerage arm of Marsh McLennan Co., Mr. Charette had to travel often. Whenever possible, he would arrange to be home when it was time to kiss the kids goodnight. If meetings ran late, he'd fly back at midnight rather than miss a morning with his family.

"Mark was the best father in the world," said his wife, Cheryl Desmarais. "The kids were everything to him."

On Sept. 11, Mr. Charette left his Millburn home at 6:45 a.m. for the second half of a two-day meeting at One World Trade Center. He is thought to have been on the 100th floor when the hijacked plane struck the building. He was 38.

Born and raised in Warwick, R.I., Mark Lawrence Charette attended the University of Pennsylvania on a ROTC scholarship.

"Mark felt that it shouldn't be his parents' responsibility to pay for his college education," said Desmarias.

Mr. Charette and Desmarais met in an engineering class, but both switched majors and graduated from The Wharton School.

After college, Mr. Charette was commissioned as an officer in the U.S. Navy. He was based in Groton, Conn., and was attached to the nuclear submarine the USS Pasadena. He attained the rank of lieutenant.

With an economics degree and nuclear technology experience, Mr. Charette was a natural hire for Johnson & Higgins, an insurance brokerage firm in New York that worked with energy companies. (J&H was later bought by Marsh McLennan Co.)

"People gravitated to him because he was a professional," said Stanley Jablonowski, head of Marsh's Morristown office, where Mr. Charette was based. "Because of his candor, because he was direct, because there was no nonsense with Mark. He was an honorable man."

Most recently, at Marsh, he handled the insurance end of construction projects for NJ Transit, American Airlines and the Philadelphia Phillies.

Eleven years ago, Mr. Charette and his wife bought a 125-year-old Victorian house in Millburn. Talented with his hands, Mr. Charette did all the fix-it work himself, including the electrical and the plumbing.

"He ripped down the walls in my bedroom and put up a cathedral ceiling," Desmarais said.

He also built a swingset for his children, Lauren, 8; Andrew, 6, and Jonathan, almost 2.

Mr. Charette is also survived by his parents, Lawrence and Donnalee Charette, and a brother, Gregory, all of Warwick, R.I.

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Mark, I have never forgotten you as my division officer on the USS Pasadena SSN-752.

Hard to believe it's been 22 years. Miss you Mark. ❤❤

Remembering Mark on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...

May we all honor Mark's legacy by being the best spouses, Mom & Dads, Grandparents, friends that we can be among all of our fellow human beings. I pray for a special blessing to Mark's family today.

May our Lord forever bless him.

Mark, this note is for your loving daughter, Lauren, who I know meant the world to you and as you did to her.
Lauren, I just wanted to know how much that letter you wrote that was published in Readers Digest touched my life. I had it framed and pass by it every day. It never ceases to touch me and get me all emotional. It certainly has enabled me to see a more precious side of life and appreciate every moment that I have with my loved ones.
Thank you for writing that.
I pray that...

As I sit here I cannot believe that it has been 13 years. Still missing you very much my dear cousin. Love Always! xoxo

Mark, thinking of you today and remembering all the fun and crazy times at Pilgrim. I had a blast busting you on you being in the Navy and those awesome bell bottoms! Always busting you that's dress blues were better looking. I still cannot believe you are gone. So glad I adopted the kids the first year you were gone. I hope you daughter had a blast with that easy bake oven. RIP my friend. Sending love...

My dear cousin, it has been 11 years and I still have not forgotten. You are always on my mind and always in my heart.