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Mark F. Hemschoot

Red Bank, New Jersey

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What Penny Knows
Penny knows he's gone; the chocolate Labrador shows she senses this. Her master, Mark F. Hemschoot, 45, is not there to walk her in the morning. Penny can't greet him at the door each night. And he'll never again feed her slices of bologna or ham while he makes his next day's lunch.

"The first two weeks she didn't eat," said Mr. Hemschoot's wife, Debora. "She moped in the house. The veterinarian was concerned. The dog actually lost 10 pounds."

They had always had dogs, since they got married in 1979. They had Chad, a collie, and Kelsey, a black Labrador, who died eight years ago. That's when they took a drive to a farm and picked out Penny. The couple's sons, Jeffrey, 19, and David, 16, thought of the pets as family.

These days, Penny has begun to eat again. She has accepted the way things are now and she is getting back to normal. Humans have their own way. "I sit down and look over at the recliner chair and he's vanished," Debora said of her husband, a senior vice president at Aon Corporation on the 105th floor of 2 World Trade Center. "It's hard. I know he is gone but he has literally vanished. But Penny is at my side and my sons are here."

Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on October 29, 2001.


Mark Hemschoot , 45, devoted to family

Mark Hemschoot had two loves, his work and his family.

He paid attention to both. There were days when he traveled the world pulling together insurance deals for his company, Aon Corp. On other days he was in school gymnasiums rooting for his sons and their basketball teams.

On Sept. 11, Mr. Hemschoot, 45, of Red Bank, was on the South Tower's 105th floor.

His wife, Debbie Hemschoot, said she called his office in the minutes after the attack on the World Trade Center. She got his voice mail, which suggested her husband of 22 years was evacuating the building.

She surmised something must have pulled him back to his office, probably an announcement that there was no problem or to retrieve his briefcase, which held his life-sustaining insulin. He didn't come home that Tuesday night.

Mr. Hemschoot was a senior vice president with Aon who had lived with diabetes for the past 30 years. He never let his illness stand in his way, his wife said. He was dedicated to his work and regularly put in 12-hour days.

He was also looking forward to watching Jeffrey, his 19-year-old, play basketball for Fairleigh Dickinson University this season. He had coached both his sons since childhood.

"I feel so bad he won't be able to see this," Debbie Hemschoot said. "These things he should be seeing. It tears my heart out that these people did this. These people with such evil and hate destroyed so many lives. All he did was go to work."

The 1974 graduate of Christian Brothers Academy in Lincroft, Mr. Hemschoot was a state champion hurdler during his high school years.

Always a high achiever, Mr. Hemschoot graduated magna cum laude with double majors from LaSalle University in 1978. He studied business management, personnel and labor relations.

Besides coaching, Mr. Hemschoot was a volunteer firefighter for Liberty Hose in Red Bank and a member of St. James Church.

In addition to his wife and son Jeffrey, Mr. Hemschoot is survived by son, David; his mother, Muriel Rembert Hemschoot of Red Bank; a sister, Carol Bossio of Red Bank; and brothers Brett of Shrewsbury and David of Lincroft.

A Mass for Mr. Hemschoot will be held at 10 a.m. Friday at St. James Church in Red Bank. In lieu of flowers, donations in Mr. Hemschoot's name can be sent to Red Bank Catholic High School, 112 Broad St., Red Bank, N.J. 07701.

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Hello Debbie
I never met you or Mr, Hemschoot but when I first heard about your loss and saw the pic of your Beautiful Dog, I felt God’s Blessings upon my heart for you and your precious family. I just wanted to send my prayers and love to your family.
May God hold you ever so close today & always. Love y’all ~ Inell Schilling

Thinking of you today. Good memories of working with you.

Prayers to you all!

Hi Judith,
I wanted to let you know that my church had given out bracelets soon after the attacks, and my bracelet says "Mark F. Hemschoot". I have prayed for you and his family for the past 15 years, and I will continue to pray as time goes on. I pray that God has given and will continue to bring you and your family peace in knowing that God has him in His arms in eternal peace until we all meet again. I'm so sorry for your loss, and I will continue to pray for you and the rest of your...

Dear Hemschoot family. I was recently at the 911 Memorial museum and I was looking at the interactive screens that included photos and bios for everyone lost their lives on 911. A gentleman was scrolling through and over his shoulder I happend to notice my birthday of August 7, 1956 and had the chills. The gentleman overheard me telling my friend that there was a person who shared my birth date. He had said that Mark had coached his son in basketball with I believe one of Mark's sons. I...

Debbie, you are in my prayers.

Debbie and Family You are always in my thoughts and Prayers. Inell Schilling

May God comfort you on yet another anniversary of 9-11. While we never met, we have since discovered that we are possibly related to your Mark. So now we have another family here on earth to remember in prayer. It sounds like Mark left a meaningful legacy in the lives of his wife and sons. Perhaps some day we will meet your family. Blessings and comfort to you and yours!

Debbie and family You are all in my Prayers. May God Bless You.