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Mary Kolenda

Grand Rapids, Michigan

Sep 16, 1959 – Dec 19, 2025 (Age 66)

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BORN
September 16, 1959
DIED
December 19, 2025
AGE
66
LOCATION
Grand Rapids, Michigan

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Mary Kolenda, goddess, diva, force of nature, and lifelong Grand Rapidian, ever-so-rudely passed away of something as trite as natural causes on Friday, Dec 19, 2025. This was beneath her.The fourth of nine children, she is preceded in death by her parents Lois and Marion Kolenda, brothers Donald...

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I'm a Kolenda from MA. I was really taken by the obituary. Wish I had the chance to meet her! My condolences and all the best to her family and friends. (Rick Kolenda - Newburyport MA)

All of us at The myositis Associations end our deepest condolences to Mary's family and friends during this difficult time. What a life well lived!

I was fortunate to work with Mary on a short project and gifted to hear her speak at a work event. She definitely left a mark like no other. Miss Mary, you will and are dearly missed. God speed beautiful soul!

Mary was and will always be a huge presence at KCAD. She was helpful, realistic and compassionate. These qualities, among many others, made her fellow faculty/staff better people. Having a bad day? Go talk to Mary. Need a reason to have a bad day? Ask Mary. Need a lawyer? No, but she probably knew one, so go talk to Mary. It's hard to conceive of how someone who was so good with data/numbers became a counselor for so many of us. A life coach, indeed. To say that Mary will be missed...

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

It was my pleasure and honor to know Mary. I didn't know her well outside of little hall, but I think that the first time you met Mary, you knew her. She didn't hold back, she was honest, funny and didn't take no crap. It was always a pleasure talking to her and usually ended up in laughter. I will miss you and your beautiful self. Love hugs and prayers for you and your family.

When Mark Rumsey hooked me up with a job at Kendall he took me straight to Mary's office and said "Look after this one". Mary took me under her wing showing me the ropes, helping me excell at my job, giving me life advise and work advice. She showed me how to be professional at work while staying true to myself, which then I didn't know it could be done! She always said 'yeah, I don't compromise, neither should any woman who works." And I have carried that treasure with me. Then, I met...

Mary was a light and will be so missed! My condolences to her family.

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.