Matthew -Picerno-Obituary

Matthew Picerno

Holmdel, New Jersey

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Wine by Night
Try, now, to envision a municipal bond broker, in his 104th-floor office, who dreams the green and bacchanalian dream of being a winemaker. That was Matthew Picerno, 44, of Holmdel, N.J. By day he worked at Cantor Fitzgerald, rising at 5:30 a.m. Six months of the year, when the day job ended, he headed over to Jersey City, to his Bacchus School of Wine franchise, and worked there until 11 p.m. It was a former two-truck garage, well scrubbed, with Italian flags and piped-in Sinatra. The students turned out 200 barrels of wine a year, the school only broke even financially, but what does money matter in an affair of the heart?

"This was a hobby," said his wife, Petrina Marie, "but he really enjoyed it. Municipal bond broker at day, winemaker at night. He was pretty wild, very loud. This was a man if you told him this was a rule, he would try to break it just because it was a rule. Anything. Driving. He lost his license at least twice in his lifetime."

Mr. Picerno, who leaves three children, aged 9, 12 and 14, had planned to pursue winemaking full time when he left Wall Street.


Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on September 29, 2001.


Matthew Picerno, 44, 'larger than life' Matthew Picerno was a skier, a winemaker and a three-sport coach, but he was proudest of being a member of the "Dancing Dads" troupe at the Dance with Melody school in Middletown, where his 9-year-old daughter, Francesca, was a student.

For four months, Mr. Picerno and a half-dozen other fathers rehearsed their routine. Finally, at a recital in June, they were ready to perform their number -- a modern dance interpretation of the '70s disco song "Macho Man."

"He was so excited to do that," said Mr. Picerno's wife, Petrina. "He was larger than life. He made everyone feel at home, part of the party. He was so very personable."

Mr. Picerno was a limited partner and a municipal bond broker at Cantor Fitzgerald on the 104th floor of One World Trade Center when it was hit by a hijacked plane on Sept. 11. He was 44.

Mr. Picerno lived with his wife and three children in Holmdel. He grew up in Jersey City, where he attended Marist and St. Mary's high schools. He graduated from Taylor Business Institute with an associate's degree.

Two years ago, the Picernos opened the Jersey City Bacchus School of Wine, where they walked clients through the process of crushing and pressing grapes and then bottling their own wine.

"The atmosphere was always fun," said Petrina Picerno. "Basically it was Matt singing Frank Sinatra the whole time."

In addition to his wife of 18 years, and his daughter, Mr. Picerno leaves two sons, Anthony, 14, and Matthew, 12; as well as his mother-in-law, Phyllis Meluso of Holmdel and many loving aunts, uncles and cousins. His parents, Anthony and Patricia (Brandoff) Picerno, predeceased him in 1986.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be offered at 10 a.m. Tuesday at St. Benedict's Roman Catholic Church in Holmdel. Interment will follow in Holmdel Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Matthew M. Picerno's Children's Educational Fund, c/o Albert Russo, P.C., 268 Broad St., Red Bank, N.J. 07701.

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Petrina and family, I think of you and Matthew every year. I remember seeing on you on TV a few days after 9/11 searching for Matthew. I will never forget your face. In 2012, I visited the 9/11 memorial and sought out Matthew's name and said a prayer for you and your family. I hope that your memories of him have brought you happiness through the years. My thoughts will always be with you and your family.

Our thoughts of continued sincere sympathy we send. Words sent will never come close to removing the deep pain of loss but may your family know that others still do care about such a sad loss. Matt touched the lives of others and will always be missed. May the time come when these acts of violence will end forever.

I was a childhood friend and classmate of matty. Spent countless hours at his house on Boyd ave. Never stopped laughing. Playing ball , boxing and his sweet Mom always feeding us. His Dad bragging and giving us the business. The fondest of times.
You never got cheated or wasted the time you had matty. Thanks for those times we shared. Wishing the best for your family .

In Memory with
Honor & Respect.

God bless you

In Remembrance!!

Dear Petrina and Family,
Today like many days my boys Joe and Jeff Watkins speak of the times they spent with your husband Matt at the School of Wine in Jersey City. (They both worked for Matty when they were in high school) We watched the memorial today and saw Francesca. What a beautiful young lady....we just wanted you to know that my family and I are praying for you and think of you often. One more thing I would like to share with you....Matty gave my son Joe a bottle of wine...

Dear Petrina & kids,
I just saw this on the internet and I wanted to let you all know that we the old Saavedra neighbors just love all of you so very much. We think of Matt so often. I absolutely loved going with you to the memorial this year. You are all so wonderful and we are so lucky to have you in our life. Linda, Carlos, Carlos Raymond, Larraine and Natalia

Dear Petrina, Anthony, Matthew and Francesca:

A long time ago moving into a newly built neighborhood, the first words and friend we met was Matthew who boomed out a giant "hello neighbor". From that moment on, I knew that we would get along well. Our family continues to pray for all of you and we share in your sorrow. Matt lived life well and I hope you all will continue to live life in the same manner.
Love always!