Melanie E. Shaffer

Dave & Family,
It's hard to find the right words, but I wanted you to know that our family has you in our thoughts and prayers. I'm sure you will find the strength, I can only imagine how hard this must be.

Mike & Janice Gerasimovich

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Dear Dave, Devin and Melanie's family,

I personally know that words cannot take away the pain that you feel over the loss of such a beautiful person. I can tell you from experience that time will help you to remember the joy and happiness that Melanie brought to your life and will numb the pain a bit. I wish that the time for this comes quickly to all of you -- that her life and legacy bring you peace and that her memory causes you to smile more than be sad.

I knew...

Dear Dave and Devin and family,
Our hearts are broken and we can't begin to imagine the grief that all of you are feeling.
I wanted to share with you the memory of Melanie that stands out in my mind. It was early September 2001 and Lonny and I were out walking Matt. We saw Melanie at the end of your driveway and talked with her for a while. She was very close to giving birth to Devin and she must have been uncomfortable, but she was absolutely beaming. I have never seen a woman...

I had the honor of knowing Melanie for the past 3 years. She would come into our doctor's office with a smile on her face every time. She was always happy and never let her disease get her down. Her smile and courage is something I will always remember about her. God bless her family.

Dear David,
I was so very sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep you and Devin in my prayers.

Kathy Carros (Hastings)

Dear Dave,
You have my deepest sympathy. Although I had not seen Melanie in a number of years, I would think about her often. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Lisa

I was blessed to have known Melanie if only for a short time. She never let on about her illness and always had a smile. I knew as much about her through my relationship with Dave and Devin. To see the love and devotion Dave has for Melanie told me she was some kind of special woman.
Devin, your mom fought very hard so you would know her. She wanted to see you grow up and have a wonderful life. We were all lucky to have her for as long as we did and she'll be with you always. I know she...

I love you Sis! You are in my heart and thoughts always, thank you for everything you gave me & for helping me to be a better man and father, I miss you...