Meredith-Kilgore-Obituary

Dr. Meredith Lamar Kilgore

Birmingham, Alabama

Aug 26, 1954 – Oct 17, 2018 (Age 64)

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BORN
August 26, 1954
DIED
October 17, 2018
AGE
64
LOCATION
Birmingham, Alabama

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Meredith Lamar Kilgore, aged 64, of Birmingham, AL died peacefully at home on October 17, 2018. To those who knew him, there was never a dull moment with Meredith around.

Born on August 26, 1954 in Shreveport, Louisiana, he spent his early childhood years there; moved to Nashville, Tennessee at age six; and Louisville, Kentucky at ten. He spent several memorable summers in Glorietta, New Mexico. While attending Ballard High School in the early 1970's, Meredith was elected class president after firing up the students by reading them the New York City Student Bill of Rights in his campaign speech. The principal tried to remind him who was in charge so Meredith let him think he was.

After struggling for several years as a jazz pianist, Meredith moved to Honolulu, Hawaii at twenty-three. He discovered that Don Ho controlled the music industry there prompting him to change careers. Starting as an aide, he completed a nursing degree and became certified in pediatric cardiovascular intensive care. He practiced nursing in hospitals for twenty-five years, but cared for people throughout his life. Always the student, he earned a Political Science degree with a minor in Japanese at the University of Hawaii. While there, he became interested in health economics. This interest led to a Masters degree from the University of Alabama at Birmingham and a PhD from the Pardee RAND Graduate School in Santa Monica, California. He was recruited back to UAB where he taught how medical decision-making relates to quality of life and treatment options. Meredith would certainly want his students to know that there are indeed health states worse than death. Meredith also served as the Chair of the Department of Health Care Organization and Policy from 2012 until August of 2018.

Meredith leaves behind his best friend, student, and colleague, who by no coincidence is his wife, Julie Locher. He also leaves behind the joy of his life, Jaxon Steele Bodner (his three year old grandson) and his step-daughter, Alexandria Bodner. His death is preceded by that of his father, Robert Gene Kilgore. He is survived by his loving mother, Elizabeth Kilgore, and his brother, Michael Kilgore (and his wife Heather) along with their children Meghan Harrison (Byron), Drew (Sarah), and Elyse and their children. In addition to family, he parts with countless treasured colleagues, trainees, coworkers, and neighbors.

Meredith spent the last hours of his life at home surrounded by his loving family. During his final departure, he had Julie on one side and Mike on the other, both holding his hands, while Heather helped Jaxon get to the piano to play Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star one last time for Meredith.

A celebration of Meredith's life will be held on Thursday, November 8 at 2pm at East Lake United Methodist Church (7753 1st Ave S, Birmingham, AL 35206) with the Reverend Sally Allocca officiating. A reception will follow.

The family requests that donations honoring Meredith's life be made to P.E.E.R., Inc., the non-profit connected to the church that runs the East Lake Farmers Market and community health initiatives (http://www.eastlakemarket.org/how-to-help/donations/).

The family is especially grateful for the care that Meredith received at The Kirklin Clinic, The Wound Care Clinic, The Whitaker Clinic, UAB Hospital, and Alacare Hospice.

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I have only just learned of Meredith's passing. I was so grateful for his support and encouragement during my time at UAB. His ability to linking his old life in clinical medicine to his life at the school of public health was a rare combination. He was an amazing teacher, energetic and motivating. I will miss him, an outstanding mentor and a wonderful man.

Julie, I was so sad to hear of Meredith's passing. He was a wonderful mentor to me while I established my second career, and I will always be grateful for his guidance and support. I sincerely regret that such a benevolent soul is no longer with us.

I only new Dr. Kilgore for a few short years. He interviewed me and gave me an opportunity at SOPH. I am greateful for that. I very much enjoyed working with him and the discussions that we had. Very nice individual and easy to talk with. I am truly sorry for your loss.

God bless.

Very sad to hear that Meredith passed away. While at RAND, I knew him as a very easy-going fellow grad student. He had an extraordinary ability to be in the moment: Meredith could sit still behind his computer, literally without any movement, for two hours in a row, and then slowly get up, with a smile and ready for a chat. He was that relaxed, also when at work! It also showed in the RAND Graduate School Band. He would tirelessly practice with us, always ready for another go at some jazz...

Julie, when I was interviewing for my current position, Meredith's advice was not to accept the position unless I could say "yes" to 2 of 3 questions: "Would I have fun?", "Would I make money?" & "Would I learn something?" GREAT advice & perspective!

2001 Bryan Tysinger and Meredith Kilgore play in RAND Graduate School Band at holiday party.

2001 Bryan Tysinger and Meredith Kilgore play in RAND Graduate School Band at holiday party.

I just saw a notice about Meredith on our internal newsletter. My heart goes out to Meredith's family and friends . I did not know Meredith well but recall the great spirit and talent and open and friendly nature in the course of my duties photographing at RAND and RGS. The photos are from a holiday party he helped rock and roll... Diane Baldwin

I remember very well the speech that M.L. made to our student body at Ballard. What captivated us and what let him to his election win was, in my opinion, his unparalleled intelligence and unequaled passion. M.L. was, indeed, a force to be reckoned with, but a most benevolent force. I have not seen his since my senior year but his passing is a loss for us all. Rest well, my friend. Rest in blissful peace.

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