Merlin J. Bellinger

A great guy. Difficult to believe it has been 9 years since his passing. Proud to have known you, Merlin. Kelly and family,, you are forever in my heart. Love you all. Bruce B

I can't think of better words, than what i posted a year ago ... miss my "cousin brother" every single day ...

think of Brud every day, his passion for life, helping others, and being a wonderful family man to his wife and childrenn ..I have, and always will consider him my "Cousin-Brother", and every time I hear some eclectic music, requote a line from a funny movie we shared, or just think of the many back and forth text bantering we did, puts a smile on my face .. Miss you every...

Sometimes out of the blue, a memory willl pop up and we're all of a sudden tearing and deeply hurting from the pain of missing someone so much. Dates especially can trigger them. But all the while, we're continuing to build another and a good loving life around these memories. So, We keep on with life in the way it's meant to be. Love you Kelly. I think of you so often and send to you and the kiddos big hugs and wishes for continuing peace.

I think of Brud every day, his passion for life, helping others, and being a wonderful family man to his wife and childrenn ..I have, and always will consider him my "Cousin-Brother", and every time I hear some eclectic music, requote a line from a funny movie we shared, or just think of the many back and forth text bantering we did, puts a smile on my face .. Miss you every day Brud ..

Now, as then, I think of you and the kids as these dates always trigger a bit of perhaps a combination of sadness but also of the lingering love and memories you have. We build our lives around that part of our lives, knowing full well, that it will always be there no matter what, and that's a good thing. I hope and think that you and the kids are continuing to do that as the time goes by. Sending lots of hugs!

Still very much missed, Kelly. You certainly picked a gem when you met Merlin.
Im sure he is in heaven waiting to see you in the future.
Thoughts and Prayers.
Bruce Burkart

Today my thoughts was on his dad Merlin Dale ( my 1st cousin). As I can remember the times we had visted his parents as young kids growing up. I had lost a son too (3 yrs ago now) and also, my cousin losing his. I pray for peace and comfort for Merlin J's family. May the lord give us all his blessings...Love to all of you...

Merlin and Sharon;
I just read this on the Bendle Alumni site..do not go on often. I lost my youngest daughter 4 years ago..she was 40. Your son seemed to have such an impact on his families life..a tribute Im sure he gained by having you both as parents. I pray your cherished memories overshadow the grief you feel and hope many blessings come your way.
Janett Henry Chene

Kelly I am truly saddened to read this news. I worked with Merlin in Chicago and will be moving to Michigan shortly. I was looking forward to getting together and hanging out. My heartfelt condolences are sent to you and your family.