Michael -DeRienzo-Obituary

Michael DeRienzo

Hoboken, New Jersey

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Half of a Duo

Michael DeRienzo, a broker at Cantor Fitzgerald, had the safe job in his family. It was his twin sister, Lisa, a narcotics detective in the New York City Police Department, who put herself in harm's way every time she went to work. Mr. DeRienzo was so nervous that he would call daily and beep her if he got no answer at her desk. "I'm OK, I'm OK," Ms. DeRienzo, who just turned 36, would assure him.

Mr. DeRienzo and his sister were close as close can be, twins and then some. Their father had disappeared years back, remarried and not maintained contact with the family. Their mother died of cancer four years ago. "It was just him and me," Ms. DeRienzo said. "We were like magnets."

As children, attending parochial school near the family's Staten Island home, she was the standout athlete. Michael would grow testy with people who considered him merely "Lisa's brother." All that changed in college, she said, when her brother reached his full growth — tall and thin, a marathoner-in-the-making, a favorite among the girls at Wagner College. "Then it was `Lisa who?' " she said.

On Sept. 10, the twins were planning a weekend trip to Chicago for a Mets-Cubs game, to be together on the anniversary of their mother's death. Instead, with a fellow member of the narcotics task force who also lost a sibling, Ms. DeRienzo spent the doubly sad day in the bucket brigade at the World Trade Center.

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You and your kindness will never be forgotten, Michael, and you and Lisa are always in our prayers. My parents bought your house in Great Kills, in 1974 when we moved from Brooklyn. My younger brother, Ralph, was your age and you befriended him right away. You were his first friend! You must be walking with Jesus on streets paved with gold now!

I think of you often. I have such great memories of our time at Wagner. Miss you my dear friend. You were taken too soon.

Michael was one of my clients many years ago when he worked at U.S. Trust, before he became a broker. He was a gentleman, and all around great guy. We would chat on the phone about anything and then talk about work. I think of him each year. He is not forgotten. Respectfully - Jim Morris

22 years, Never Forget, Never willRIP Mikey D.

We will never forget you! What fun we all had at all the TKE events etc. at Wagner College.

Forever remembering this beautiful soul.

Not forgotten Mike! All these years later I recall the Jersey shore house fondly, Even the misadventures at Jenks in Pt. Pleasant! You were robbed of so much and your Sister Lisa equally robbed of the opportunity to live her life with her twin brother. Rest easy my friend.

Enduring prayers of peace and grace for all who continue to love, honor and remember Michael.

Remembering you this week. 20 years since you passed. You are missed every day.