Michael 'Mike' Steven-Duren-Obituary

Photo courtesy of Nelson Funeral Home - Maddock

Michael 'Mike' Steven Duren

Maddock, North Dakota

May 29, 1955 – Oct 4, 2024

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BORN
May 29, 1955
DIED
October 4, 2024
LOCATION
Maddock, North Dakota

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Nelson Funeral Home - Maddock Obituary

Mike Duren, 69, of Maddock, ND, passed away peacefully on the sunny fall morning of October 4th, 2024, surrounded by family in his beloved home after a 7-month knock-down drag-out with cancer. We take comfort in knowing he is no longer in pain and never has to watch another commercial again. Mike has generously donated his body to UND’s Deeded Body Program to help students learn by “figuring out what the h*ll is going on in here.”


Michael Steven Duren was born in Maddock on May 29th, 1955, to Art and Marjorie (Zwack) Duren. The fifth of nine children, he was the only one to arrive on his anticipated due date, marking the first and last time he was ever on time according to his mother. A proud and avid Scout in his youth, Mike always had an affinity for helping others before himself, building a good fire, growing things with his green thumb, and knowing everything. As a kid, he enjoyed collecting baseball cards and comic books, taking care of his siblings, helping out at the family bakery, participating in every sport, making people laugh, and stressing out his parents. Following high school graduation in 1973, the discus state champ went on to attend NDSCS as part of their track and field team, graduating with his associate’s degree in electronics technology in 1975. Later in life, Mike was best known for throwing his famously large and loud New Year’s Eve parties, fixing up classic cars, wearing Birkenstocks before they were cool, being a proud "Deadhead", and collecting thousands of records, radios, and every antique in between. 


Fiercely independent and stubborn as a bull, Mike was equally determined, passionate, and hard-working. After spending a few years traveling down the West Coast from Seattle, Washington to San Francisco, California, taking photos and working construction, he returned home to Maddock in the early '90s. He and Kaaren (Swanson) Duren settled down in 1995, raising three daughters who were the absolute lights of Mike's life and his proudest accomplishments. Aside from his children, Mike’s other pride and joy was his home . Upon hearing that this house, originally built in 1906, was surely a lost cause, Mike proceeded to pour a labor of love into the farmhouse, successfully restoring its former charm and grandeur and proving everyone wrong. 


Family was truly at the center of everything for Mike. This was evident in his relationships with his daughters, in-laws, ex-wife, and granddaughter; in Duren Brothers Construction, the business he owned and operated for 30 years with his best friend and brother Gerry; and in the annual week-long 4th of July celebrations with his siblings, cousins, and ever-growing number of nieces and nephews at his childhood home in Maddock. 


Mike will live on through his daughters, Ashley (Andrew) Kitsch, Nora Duren, and Greta Duren; granddaughter, Eleanor Kitsch; siblings, Mary Duren Hermanson, Chris (Tom) Cahill, Gerard (Paula) Duren, Jan (Michaella) Duren, Jeanine (Joseph) Zeamer, Margaret (Dave) Emanuel; and countless other family and friends his soul touched throughout the years. He is preceded in death by his big brother Peter, his little sister Julie, his parents, Art and Marge, and several other party-goers he cherished along the way. He is and will be so deeply missed. 


Services to follow Thanksgiving weekend at the Community Center and Fourth of July weekend at the Duren farmhouse. 

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So sad hear of your family’s loss of Mike!!

What a great guy! I was in his grade school class and thought his whole family was great. That picture looks just like I remember him. God bless you all, Cheryl Iverson Olson

Duran Family,
I just heard of Mike’s passing and I wanted to offer my sincere condolences to your families.

Mike always had a smile on his face. I didn’t know him as an adult other than in passing. As kids he was always at the pool in the summertime and a lot of times the bakery. ALWAYS with his big smile.

He also mowed and took care of the yard work for my aunt and uncle, Maggie & Adolph Engstrom.

Our families have gone through a lot together and I...

I was so sorry to hear and read of Mike's passing. My sincere sympathy to his family!! I met Mike only one time as my family was very interested in getting a tour of the house he restored. I grew up in this home and my 2 brothers and I were so happy when it was going to be restored by Mike. It was a very exciting day when he so graciously let us tour his home. It brought back so many memories of the home I lived in for 18 years. Thank you, Mike!!

To the Duren family: I would like to extend my deepest sympathies. I knew Mike when he was a much younger man and I was a much younger woman. I would recognize that beautiful smile anywhere. I loved riding in his beautiful T Bird! I know how much he loved his family so I am sure he will be greatly missed. God bless all of you.

God bless your whole “DUREN Family.” You always were so close, & caring. Stay close, & God will always be with you.

So sorry for your loss. Mike was such a nice person and a friend to everyone. He will be missed.

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To The Duren Family, My thoughts and prayers. I had heard about Mike’s cancer battle. The battle is one that is not often won. Memories of Mike- I think he and I spent a lot of summer days together at the Maddock pool. My Dad loved the Duren boys in Scouts. The photo on the obituary is perfect. It is Mike