Michael-Diffley-Obituary

Michael W. Diffley

Obituary

Diffley Michael W. Diffley, b. 2/29/36, d. 7/19/04, of complications following a cardiac arrest on 7/5. Born in Bemidji, MN, the third of seven children of Henry (Jack) and Marian Diffley, Mike grew up on the family farm, attended eight grades of one-room school, graduated from Bemidji High School and the U. of MN where he was a member of Phi Kappa Psi fraternity. After graduate school in computer science, he worked for Control Data Corp. and the U. of MN Dept. of Lab Medicine. In 1975 he became a partner in the fledgling Corporate Travel Services, eventually becoming sole owner. He sold the company in 1998, but continued as director of computer operations until his sudden death. Mike loved his life: his large family and all their activities and get-togethers, his work, travel, the Vikings (and Packers!), Twins, Gopher sports, golf, and especially tennis. He enjoyed parties, singing, dancing (a polka specialist) card games...belonged to both poker and bridge clubs. Pre-deceased by parents, mother-in-law, Ruth Stevens, brother-in-law, Daral Olson; sister- in-law, Carol Boyer. He is survived by grieved by Judy, wife of 45 years; children, Patrick (Karen), Thomas (Elvira), Anne, Kathleen Dawson (Matthew), Victoria Nhan, James Nhan (Penny), Quang Ngugen (Julie), Nam Nguyen (Van), Vin Nguyen; father-in-law, Ralph Stevens; nine grandchildren; sisters, Ila Olson, Nina Anderson (Lawrence), Patricia Kluzak (Duane); brothers, Henry (Beth), Larry (Mimi), Terry (Jean); sisters-in-law, Jane and Nancy Stevens; 26 nephews & nieces; 25 great nephews & nieces. Memorial service Sat., July 24, at 2 PM with visitation one hour prior, St. Luke's Episcopal Church, 46th & Colfax Ave. S., Mpls. Memorials suggested to Susan G. Komen Foundation, Lupus Foundation, St. Luke's Church, or donor's choice. Cremation Society of MN 612-825-2435
This obituary was originally published in the Star Tribune.

Guest Book

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I think about you every day dad. I still can't get it through my head or heart that you are gone. I can just hear people saying "he is here dear" but you know what I mean. It isn't the same and it never will be again. I have a beautiful son, his name is Michael. You would love him dad. He has big brown eyes and a silly grin, just like you, minus the brown eyes and I just want you to know, I will make sure that he loves baseball. Isabella adores him and he her. I know it might seem odd that I...

Although some time has passed, and hearts have started to heal from this loss. I have just learned of this. I feel blessed that I had an opportunity to learn and grow from Mike. I worked with Mike at Corporate Travel Services from 1984 until 1999. I contribute that I am, who I am because of Mike. I will miss his happy disposition, his singing, and his constant compassion he had for others. God Bless his family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

I worked at Corporate Travel from
1987 - 2004. Mike was wonderful. I am`sorry i missed the Memoral Service. I have thought alot about the years that I worked at Corporte Travel and all of the funny things that Mike did - he made every day very interesting.
I feel very bad that I never got to say goodbye - he made me laugh so much. I will nver forget the Christmas that that he played Santa and before he would give us girls our gifts we had to set on his lap and give him a kiss -...

To the Diffley Family and most of all "My Son Tom",

This world has truly lost a dear soul. I had the privilege of working with Mike at CT, to have so many fond memories of someone that you worked with says so much about that person. I have read all of the guest book entries and agree with each and every comment made about this wonderful person. I recently lost my dear husband under somewhat similar circumstances so my message to all of you is that time will heal that hole in...

What a wonderful tribute to a wonderful man whose time on this earth was cut short.

I first met Mike at the wedding of Judy and Mike. He immediately impressed me with his warmth and friendliness and that impression has never changed.

We have seen each other many times at "Barclay" family reunions and weddings and he always is the life of the party!! I will forever hold in my memory his singing Phi Psi songs with my father. Oh, how happy that made Dad.
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Michael William Diffley, a great man who just happened to be my Dad, our Dad. It occurred to me as I sat next to my Dad in the hospital that I never knew my Fathers Father, Grandpa Jack, Jack passed away when I was one. Ah.... but I did know my Grandpa Jack, through my Dad. Square jaw, WWI infantryman in the famous Yankee Division, farmer, jack of all trades, I'll tell ya, if there is one person that I could have a cup of coffee with, it would be Grandpa Jack. Yeah, I did know my Fathers...

I had the honor of being Mike's neice. My favorite memory of Mike is from years ago. When I was 9 or 10 and would spend many a Friday or Saturday night over at the Diffley house, I remember when Mike would take us to see the shooting stars. Mike always knew when these celestial events were going to occur and he made sure that Anne, Katy and I didn't miss them. He'd wake us in the middle of the night and drive us out into the country (so no city lights would interfere with our being able to...

Hi Aunt Judy and Family:
I want to send you a note on behalf of Uncle Mike and let you know how sorry I am for his loss. He will be truly missed. I can assure you of that. However, I want you know what a possitive influence Uncle Mike has had in my life. I can see his smile and hear his voice right now as I type this email. His smile and laugh will be missed but my memories of Uncle Mike will live on forever. I love you guys and will keep you all in my prayers.
Brad, Jack and...

I was very fortunate to have Mike as a student when he was at Bemidji High School. Not only was he a good student, he as very helpful as a helper in the lab. I had the priviledge of visitling him at his home and remember what a nice family he had.