Ridgewood, New Jersey
A Grandfather-to-Be
On Memorial Day, Michael San Phillip got the news he had waited years to hear. His oldest daughter, married 11 years, was about to make him a grandfather for the first time. The discovery reduced him to tears, no small task for a man who had spent 34 years rising in the rough and tumble world of Wall Street finance. Though he had catapulted himself to vice president at Sandler O'Neill & Partners, an investment house on the 104th floor at 2 World Trade Center, the title he craved was that of grandfather. It was as big a moment as if he had won one of his beloved tennis and paddle matches, the ones he has for decades been so devoted to organizing. Folks in Ridgewood, N.J., had nicknamed him "Captain Paddle."
"He was really looking forward to seeing his first grandchild in December," said Jill Abbott, Mr. San Phillip's daughter. "He had the hope in his heart that it would be a little boy, a little Mikey."
Mike, I still remember you from the Ridgewood Country Club. The fun we all had playing doubles tennis. The laughs. You were always a kind gentleman. Always had a smile on your face, always had something nice to say about someone. You were just a pleasure to be with. 21 years later and I still remember you and miss you. I am sure you have found peace with our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.
Tony Pistilli
September 11, 2022 | Friend
I believe this is the Mike San Phillip I went to St. Anastasia School in Teaneck, NJ. a lifetime ago. such a bright, friendly, and handsome young man whom I had a crush on in 8th grade. Was so sad to read that you were a victim of 9/11. Test in peace.
Carrol Kehrley
June 09, 2020 | Youngsville, NY | Friend
Chris McK
March 25, 2017
Mike,
Didn't know you but my wife and I were drawn to your name on the memorial when we visited in October to pay our respects. No reason, probably just the "San" in your name and the flower that day.
Decent people will never forget the innocents of that day.
David & Amanda Pougher
November 09, 2014 | Bristol UK
Mike, what a friend and fun guy you were. I will never forget those good old days at Ridgewood C.C. Those weekend doubles matches where we all played hard and laughed harder. You were a good man and you will always be in our hearts.
Tony Pistilli
September 12, 2014 | Toms River, NJ
Happy Birthday, Michael. God bless you in heaven!
ceci Cabrera
November 16, 2013 | Pasadena, CA
you were my cousin.....i have never forgotten.......
donna ferraro
September 11, 2011 | Mint Hill, NC
Uncle Mike
You were an amazing uncle. I loved hearing all of your stories especially your Halloween Party stories. You always had a smile and made everyone feel warm and welcomed.
Your niece
Bridget M Bollinger
September 09, 2011
Mike, you are still in our prayers. Bless you and your family
Frank San Phillip
September 10, 2010 | Branchville, NJ
