Nancy Frazee Nicalo Shaffer

Happy Heavenly Birthday, Nance!

Because we only saw each other every five years, I still can't accept that you are gone. I need more time. I still hear the sound of your laughter. I still hear your dry, snide comments. I will never stop missing you. I hope you are in the most beautiful place with your parents and Bruce. Someday I will join you. Until then, RIP. Love you, Nance.

I thought of you on October 9 when you would have turned 68. Did you hear me wishing you "Happy Birthday?" I still can't believe you are gone. I didn't go to our 50th class reunion...I just couldn't go without you. You left a huge hole in my heart and I miss you. Always BFFs. Love you, Nance.

Nance, here it is...a new year, almost a year since you left us. Last night, New Year's Eve, I was home alone and thinking about all the special people who have left my world. You, of course, were one of them. We always had so much fun together; I can still hear the sound of your laughter. We bonded immediately when we met in 7th grade and that bond was never broken. When you moved to Michigan, the only times we saw each other were high school class reunions, but I knew you were just a phone...

To All of Nancy's family,

Please accept my deepest condolences on your profound loss.

I had the absolute pleasure of working with Nancy at Ingham Regional Medical Center in Lansing, MI over a six year period. She was the ultimate professional, and anyone who received her watchful care when she administered anesthesia was blessed indeed.

What impressed me the most about Nancy was her joie de vivre and absolutely perfect ironic sense of humor. She made me laugh! ...

We are sorry to hear about Nancys' passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. With sympathy, Donna & John Helman and Tom & Beverly Kraus.

To Nancy' s family, most especially Tony and Keith,
I am so very sorry to hear of Nancy's passing. Even though it was many years ago I will always remember Nancy and our old crew in ICU at Saint Vincents' s. We had so much fun. Your mom was an awesome nurse and a good friend. So many memories of going to class, co-op daycare so we could get our BSN's, lunch at Lynn's , Mary Fran fluffing and smoothing the sheets on nights. Your mom's continued dedication to get her CRNA. It's been a few...

I am at a loss for words. Nancy and I were best friends since 7th grade. So many memories are rushing into my head... Although we were not as close after she moved to Michigan, we were able to pick up right where we left off when we would get together. I had no idea she was ill and my mind cannot grasp the fact that she has passed away. You will never be forgotten, Nance, and I will keep you close to my heart forever. R.I.P. my dear friend.