Nancy-Stolfi-Obituary

Nancy Stolfi

Centerville, Ohio

Dec 14, 1928 – Aug 28, 2012 (Age 83)

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BORN
December 14, 1928
DIED
August 28, 2012
AGE
83
LOCATION
Centerville, Ohio

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Nancy Stolfi, an amazing woman of courage and strength, left Gods earth on 8-28-2012. Nancy worked most of her life in professions that provided services to the needy, first as a social worker and then as a long term care administrator. Having achieved 3 Masters degrees, her skills, talent, education and a high level of compassion for those less fortunate, left a positive imprint on those she advocated for. Nancy is survived by her daughter Candy and son-in-law Sal, son John and daughter-in-law Bonnie, daughters Alexandra and Adrienne, son Stephen, sister Leanora and brother-in-law Sal, brother Mike and sister-in-law Ann, 5 grandchildren, 6 great grandchildren, and 3 great great grandchildren. Her children would like to extend special thanks to Dr. Larry Lawhorne for his guidance and support, and for the compassionate care he provided to our mother . Nancy will be forever missed by all who loved her. Services will be held at Westbrock Funeral Home, 5980 Bigger Road, Kettering, Ohio, 45440 on Friday 8/31/2012 at 10:30 AM, followed by a service at the Community Mausoleum at David's Cemetery, 4600 Mad River Road, Kettering , Ohio, 45429. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to a charity of your choice.

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Dear Mom: I am still missing you more and more and wishing I could hug you just one more time. Although I feel sadness everyday that you are not here, I am more sad as your birthday approaches. I miss not being able to call you and sing the birthday song. And I miss how you laughed every time I did that. Where ever you are and what ever you are doing, I hope you are in peace. Some day I will join you and we will once again celebrate. Love you forever.

Dear Mom: I can not believe the 10 year anniversary of your death is here
Life has never been the same having lost someone so dear
But I don't need this day to bring you to mind
Because the days I do not think of you are very hard to find
A part of me went with you that awful day you died
I have not fully moved on, no matter how hard I tried
The pain in my heart is still the same, although I hide my tears
I thought it would diminish but hasn't in all these...

Dear Mom: Although I think of you everyday, and still feel sadness and pain because I can't hug you, hear your voice, or share happy times, Dec. 14th is always more painful. I want to be able to wish you a Happy Birthday and be with you to celebrate. My grief over your loss is still profound, and sometime hard to deal with. Although you are with me daily in my thoughts, it will never be the same as having you next to me. I desperately long to be able to hold you in my arms in one long...

Dear Mom: it is hard to believe that the 9 year anniversary of your death is approaching soon. August 28th continues to be a day I dread, since the memory of that day is so painful. I continue to miss you each and every second I am awake and wish so much that things were different. I try to hold on to happy memories, times we laughed together, and times we made new memories, but it is hard since you are not here. My heart continues to ache. I long to see your face and hold you close. I hope...

Dear Mom: today, on your birthday, I am more sad then I am most days. I wish you were here so we could celebrate your birthday and I could give you hugs and kisses. I MISS YOU SO MUCH, it is painful. Rest in Peace and know I think of you every minute. Love forever!

Dear Mom: August 28th continues to be the worse day of my life. Not having you here to hold, hug, kiss, laugh with, and make new memories is as painful now as it has been since you left us 8 years ago. I think of you everyday and long for things to be different. I will never stop missing you!
And my heart will never stop aching. I love you Mom.

Dear Mom, on this Mothers Day I want to say:
"The hardest thing in life to bear is to want you with me, but you're not there. So forgive me Mom if I still weep, for you Mom, who I love and longed to keep. The sorry I feel I can not explain, the ache in my heart will long remain!"
Each day that passes is filled with memories of you, the regret of knowing new memories will not be made, and no lessening of the pain in my heart over not being able to see you and hug you. Until we see...

Everyday continues to be laden with moments of profound sadness and loneliness because of losing you. However, August 28 continues to be the worse day of my life for it is on this day every year that I relive the horror and pain of watching you die. My grief has softened some but still remains intense. It takes on different shapes and forms with some days better than others. I yearn for the sound of your voice, the sound of your laughter and the comfort from your hugs. I miss you Mom more...

On the 6 year anniversary of your death, I continue to carry a painful and enduring ache in my unhealed heart. It seems like my sorrow and grief will never lessen. It is still so hard to grasp that you are gone forever and that it has already been 6 years. For me, it was only yesterday that you took your last breath.
" I awake each morning to start a new day, enduring the pain of losing you that never goes away. I go about the things I have to do and as the hours pass I think again of...