Neil-Dolinsky-Obituary

Neil Leonard Dolinsky

Obituary

Dolinsky, Neil Leonard 50, died suddenly on May 29, 2009. Preceded in death by father, Aron Dolinsky. Survived by wife of 27 years, Cathie Mahar; daughters, Luci and Helen; mother, Beverly; brother, Steven (Amy Dordek); sister, Karen (Ron Sallerson); sister-in-law, Alison (Alan Marshall); brothers-in-law, Kenneth Mahar (Rhondda), Andrew Mahar; Aunt, Harriet Londer Hilecher and loving nieces, nephews and cousins in both Australia and America. Neil was born and raised in St. Cloud, MN and graduated from the University of Denver before moving to Minneapolis, where he received his Chartered Financial Analyst certification. He was Vice President at C.C. Dunnavan & Co., and Co-Founder/CFO of Rollouts Inc. He moved with his family to Australia in 1998, and most recently served as Project Manager for InterOil, headquartered in Cairns, Australia. Neil was multi-talented and had many interests, which included chess, astronomy, mathematics and music of all kinds. His passion for the trombone resulted in his performance in the Bloomington Symphony Orchestra for many years. He was also an avid flyer, having earned his pilot's license a decade ago. Neil had a brilliant and curious mind and will be deeply missed by his friends, colleagues and extended family who respected and adored him for his patience, generous spirit and compassion. Burial will take place in Australia. Shiva will be held June 8th and 9th at 7 p.m. at B'nai Emet Synagogue. A memorial service will be held at B'nai Emet Synagogue on Monday, June 22nd, at 11 a.m. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Bev & Aron Dolinsky Fund at B'nai Emet Synagogue, 3115 Ottawa Ave. S. Minneapolis, MN 55416; the Bloomington Symphony Orchestra, or donor's favorite charity.
This obituary was originally published in the Star Tribune.

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Dear Cathie
So sorry to learn of the loss of your husband Neil back in 2009, he was a nice man.
We have not seen one another for many years but I do think of you and just today re read some of your letters to me when Nigel and I were spending our 2 years in Glasgow Scotland with our wee boy Mac ( now 42!)
How time disappears on us, would love to catch up again one day. Do reach out if you would like to do so.
With love
Wendy Gilchrist
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Thank you so veery much to the kind things you have all said about Neil. He was a pretty special person. To John, it is extraordinary that it is 12 years. I still sometimes think, 'surely that didn't happen'. I know you were a good friend of Neil's; he enjoyed your company and spending time with you in the trombone section of the orchestra. Cathie

Has it really been 12 years? Don Weiblen and I still talk about Neil in the trombone section of the Bloomington Symphony - especially when we play Tchaikovsky 6. There is a gut-wrenching passage for the trombones near the end of the first movement. Neil provided melodramatic lyrics to that passage. "I've loooooost the farm! I've loooooost the farm! ..." So perfect. When we play that section, we just look at each other, nod, and say, "Neil." Being a trombonist is much more than just...

To all of Neil's friends who visit this site, my blog post on Neil (http://bolstablog.wordpress.com/2009/06/22/neil/) includes all six eulogies and many remembrances from family and friends. I hope you will consider also leaving your message on this post so that it is as complete a tribute to Neil as possible.
Thank you for keeping Neil's memory alive.
Phil Bolsta
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Neil,
I have often thought of you and for some reason i decided to google you today. I am shocked to hear of your passing and I pray your family finds peace with it, as well as joy in the memories and experiences you left them with. This is bringing tears to my eyes even after all these years.

Prayers of peace,
Fritz Garrecht ( fellow short seller )

To Neil's family:

I am saddened by Neil's death and sorry for your loss. In reflecting, I recognize my childhood was richer because of Neil and his family in St Cloud.
A memory:
Neil and I under my family's ping pong table furiously folding sheets of paper into "spacecraft" in the hopes we might assemble a fleet of ships to take us "where no man has gone before."

Another memory:
Listening to 78's on the record player in the basement of the Dolinsky...

My thoughts and prayers are with the Dolinsky family. Neil was such a bright man. He was a pleasure to know, both on a professional and social level. He will be missed.

To all the Dolinsky's,

My heartfelt condolences to all of you. I remember Neil from grade school through college. I remember fondly playing in his basement, learning chess, hebrew, playing music. Neil was one of those people whom you always knew would turn out all right. Although we missed him at the 30th high school anniversary, he was remembered by many. Even though you were blessed with Neil for only a short 50 years, he will be remembered well beyond the next 50.

Thank you, Luci, for getting word to us of your Dad's passing through Maggie. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your mom and Helen. Please let us know if you are going to be in Minneapolis. with love, Diane Adair and family
...as for a memory...I just came across a picture of a rocket launch...there are a bundle of memories from those special years.