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I think of you often Neil.Miss you always ox
Norma Nadeau
April 08, 2025 | South Paris, ME | Friend
Boston, Massachusetts
Boston, MA.- Neil Jeffrey Oja, 54, of Oxford passed away on Saturday, April 12 in Boston, MA. He was born on September 11, 1959, the son of Frederick and Beryl (Ellingwood) Oja, both of West Paris.
Neil graduated from Oxford Hills High School in June of 1977. Following his graduation, he worked at several different jobs in the local area. Then, in 1992, Neil joined the Asbestos Workers, Local 6, for whom he continued to work until his death.
Neil was a gifted athlete and a lifelong Red Sox fan. He played on several local sports teams and was an accomplished golfer and outdoorsman.
Neil was a fourth of seven children. He is survived by his mother, Beryl Oja of West Paris; his siblings, Gail Oja of North Andover, MA., Joel and Lorraine Oja of Danforth, Beth Cantwell of Billerica, MA., Jackson Oja and Lucio DeBarros of Salem, N.H., Jerry Oja and David Oja of Brockton, MA. and Julie Oja and Tanya Gillette of Dallas, PA.; 5 nieces and 5 nephews, Tonya and Eric Jacobs and their children Seneca and Siana, Jacob Oja, Amber Oja, Kristen Cantwell, Jason Cantwell, Matthew, Joshua and Luke Gillette. Neil was predeceased by his father, Frederick Oja. Online condolences may be shared with his family at www.chandlerfunerals.com
Funeral services will be held on Wednesday, April 16 at 11 a.m. at Chandler Funeral Homes & Cremation Service, Andrews Chapel, 64 Andrews Rd., Bryant Pond. Family and friends may attend visitation on Tuesday evening from 6:30 to 8 p.m. at the funeral home. Interment will be later in the spring at Wayside Cemetery in West Paris.
I think of you often Neil.Miss you always ox
Norma Nadeau
April 08, 2025 | South Paris, ME | Friend
My deepest sympathy goes out to Jeff's family during this most difficult time. I have so many great memories of Jeff. I remember in our Elementary School days, we were such a small, and close group of kids growing up. Most of us continued school and we graduated together. My thoughts and prayers are with Jeff's family. I thank you for the memories, that make the smiles of today.
May you RIP Jeff.
Kim Strout Thurston
April 19, 2014 | South Paris, ME
Sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. We played a lot of baseball and cards growing up . One of the best athletes I ever played with. Thoughts and prayers to the family.
Tobin Morey
April 18, 2014 | Columbia, CT
Sending my love and prayers to your entire family!
Teri Bisbee Fleck
April 15, 2014 | South Paris, ME
from your second favorite fitter,Luv yah Neil
April 15, 2014
Thoughts and prayers go out to the family of "Jeff" (I knew and loved him as Jeff-I think it was HS before anyone called him Neil) We were friends right from the time I moved to West Paris right thru High School...RIP Jeff-thanks for all of the memories.
Judy Lawrence Green
April 15, 2014 | Norway, ME
RIP Jeff
Kim Waterhouse-Clemons
April 15, 2014 | Clarksville, TN
No farwell words were spoken
No time to say good-bye.
You were gone before we knew it,
and only God knows why.
Our hearts will ache with sadness.
And secret tears will flow.
For what it meant to loose you
No one will ever know.
God Speed Neil Jeffrey Oja, your friendship, your smile and laughter will never be forgotten. Raise a glass and toast to a good man!
In love and friendship,
Shelli Bigonski-Graves
Shelli Bigonski-Graves
April 15, 2014 | Hebron, ME
You will always live in our hearts and prayers.
Dale Kotthaus
April 15, 2014 | West Paris, ME