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Neil Thomas Witt, IV
'T'
Neil, 20, of Charlotte, died Tuesday January 13, 2004 at Carolinas Medical Center due to injuries sustained in an automobile accident.
Neil was born July 26, 1983 in Charlotte, North Carolina. He attended Olympic High School and was to begin Central Piedmont Community College in the Mechanic curriculum. He had worked in the food service at South Minster Retirement Community for four years. Neil had the talent of working with his hands, tinkering on his dirt bike, automobile and anything that had an engine.
A service to celebrate the life of Neil Witt will be held 11:00 AM Saturday, January 17, 2004 from the sanctuary of Sharon Presbyterian Church,5201 Sharon Road, with The Reverend Terry Hannah, senior minister, officiating. Burial will follow in Sharon Memorial Park. The family will greet friends Friday evening from 6:00 PM until 8:00 PM at McEwen Pineville Chapel.
Neil is survived by his parents, Bette and Ray Beaty of Charlotte; father, Neil T. Witt,III and Barbara Witt of Clover, SC; maternal grandmother, Mrs. Florence Hubbard; step-grandparents, Kenneth and Frankie Beaty all of Charlotte; his special girlfriend, Nichole "Nikki" Urban of Charlotte; aunts and uncles: Bill and Connie Hubbard, Mary Hubbard and Jim Munden, Pete and Missy Hubbard, Jenny and Jerry Stevens, Nancy Witt and Scott Beaty; cousins: April Hubbard, Billy Hubbard, Anna Hubbard and Joey Hunter; and stepbrother, Nicholas Harris of Clover, SC. Neil was preceded in death by his grandfather, Clarence Pete Hubbard in April 2003.
Memorials may be made in remembrance of Neil T. Witt, IV to The Organ Donation Program (it was Neil's request that his organs be donated) The Alzheimer's Association or The American Heart Association.
McEwen Funeral and Cremation Service, Pineville Chapel.
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Jess Faircloth
January 16, 2025
still think of you T.
Eric
January 9, 2024
Always thinking of you and missing you! It´s been 20 years and yet sometimes it feels like only days.
Amy Hawks
October 16, 2020
A song came on today that made me think of you. I actually slowed down for a minute, so thank you for that. Your memory still resides deep within my heart each and everyday. It’s been so long, but I can still see your cheesy, cute, little smile and hear the laughter of your voice. You were such a big part of my childhood and I’ve never really expressed how blessed I was to have had you in my life. You listened to me ramble on about all the crazy stuff inside my head on those, what didn’t seem long enough, truck rides home from school. Yeah, that part. When B couldn’t pick me up, you were always there! I always got excited when you picked me up in the truck...it was so cool.... and being that I was kind of the outcast at the awful private school i went to, truck rides with you and Rickenbach made everything seem so much better. Tom Petty playing “And I’m Freeeeeee”, me in the middle. What I’d give to be back there for even just a minute!
I miss you sweet friend, so very much. A very special part of my heart will always belong to you. Love you forever and always. Until i see you again, you keep that middle seat warm for me! ((Big Hugs))
Still thinking of you Ray and Bette. Miss you both very much. Love y’all.
Jess Faircloth
April 14, 2020
I still love you and miss you every day. Always will.
Ray Beaty
July 26, 2018
HAPPY BIRTHDAY SON !!!
My Truck
Ray Beaty
January 12, 2017
Trouble X2
Ray Beaty
January 12, 2017
The Gang 2
Ray Beaty
January 12, 2017
The Gang
Ray Beaty
January 12, 2017
First Bike
Ray Beaty
January 12, 2017
Neil & Billy
Ray Beaty
January 12, 2017
Cousins 2
Ray Beaty
January 12, 2017
Cousins
Ray Beaty
January 12, 2017
Ray Beaty
January 12, 2017
In our hearts forever
Ray
January 12, 2017
I miss these days
January 12, 2017
Mom & Ray
July 26, 2016
33 Candles today
Love You T
mom
September 22, 2014
for my love
Ray Beaty
January 13, 2014
Hard to beleive it has been 10 years...Sometimes it feels like forever and sometimes it feels like you just left us. We Love You...
Mom & Ray
July 26, 2013
Happy Birthday T !!!
Big 30
Love You son
Ray
January 12, 2013
Today was your stairway to Heaven
Ray Beaty
July 26, 2012
Happy Birthday " BOSS " We sure miss you !!! Wish You Were Here
Ray Beaty
January 12, 2012
8 years and at times feels just like yesterday. Love ya T
Ray
Amy Hawks
July 26, 2011
Happy Birthday Neil! Miss you more than ever. Love you!
jess
December 7, 2010
Would love to see more pictures if anyone has some to share... "not a day goes by" lonestar
Neil T. Witt IV
neil witt III
December 5, 2010
nt witt III
September 21, 2009
please remember me***tim mcgraw
nt witt III
December 9, 2008
tears in heaven**eric clapton
December 9, 2008
Just stopping by to say hey again and my heart still goes out to those you held close to yours. Thinking of you always!
Jess #2
nt witt
December 1, 2008
Neil Ts stepmother Barbara passed away at home 11/23/2008 take her in yours arms and help her rest in peace.ilove ya
nt witt III
November 8, 2008
if theres anybody out there that could post any pictures to this site i would hold you and yours dear.
nt witt III
November 8, 2008
who you'd be today? kenny chesney
NEIL T WITT III
June 15, 2008
today ia fathers day,a day i still hold dear,even with your passing i am so proud to have been your dad ,but i want to thank ray for being your father and helping you become the very special kid you were.rest in peace neil t. i love you and miss you.
DAD
December 3, 2007
WELL ITS ALMOST CHRISTMAS, AND WHILE SHOPPING I FOUND A GREAT 1957
MERCURY THAT HAS A CHRISTMAS TOUCH ,I WILL BRING IT OUT WHEN I CHANGE YOUR CAR COLLECTION AT YOUR GRAVE SITE.I LOVE AND MISS YOU SON.
Jess #2
September 4, 2007
Just saying hey and miss you!
Jess #2
July 27, 2007
Happy late Birthday Neil T...We miss you!
July 26, 2007
HAPPY BIRTHDAY NEIL T.,THANKS FOR WATCHING OVER US.
Jessica Faircloth
April 8, 2007
Happy Easter Neil T!!! Thinking of you..
April 6, 2007
HAPPY EASTER
Jessica Faircloth
February 13, 2007
Neil, I just wanted to let you know that I still think about you every day and you are still the sunshine in all of our lives. It gets hard sometimes when I actually stop and think about all of the good times. I figure thats what you would want though, us to remember all the GREAT times. Love you..
February 9, 2007
T, Its been a while since I have talked to you. Wish you were here to live this crazy thing called life. We miss ya man.
Tim
Jessica Faircloth
November 1, 2006
I will always love you with all of my heart Neil! You are and have always been my heart. I think of you all the time.
October 31, 2006
HAPPY HALLOWEEN,
July 26, 2006
HAPPY BIRTHDAY,
N. WITT III
July 20, 2006
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006
neil t. witt III
January 13, 2006
TODAY IS FRIDAY JULY 13th, 2 YEARS FROM THE SHOCK AND PAIN
, 2 YEARS INTO MOURNING THE LOSS OF YOU.I LOVE HAVING YOU WATCHING OVER ME,IT GIVES ME GREAT COMFORT.I WILL ALWAYS LOVE AND MISS YOU SON.REST IN PEACE
Tim Connair
January 28, 2005
I still cant believe its been a little over a year since you left us T. Theres not a day goes by that I dont think of you. We all miss you man and cant wait to meet again.
Jessica Faircloth
December 12, 2004
Words cannot express how much Neil touched peoples lives, whether it be people he just met or it be his closest friends. He is and will always be greatly missed, as well as a huge part in my heart. There is not a day in the week that I'm not thinking about you! My thoughts and prayers go out to the family and friends of Neil T.
neil t. witt III
July 15, 2004
"YOU NEVER SAID IM LEAVING.YOU NEVER SAID GOOD-BYE.YOU WERE GONE BEFORE I KNEW IT,AND ONLY GOD KNEW WHY.A MILLION TIMES IVE NEEDED YOU,A MILLION TIMES IVE CRIED.IF LOVE ALONE COULD HAVE SAVED YOU,YOU
WOULD HAVE NEVER DIED.IN LIFE I LOVED YOU DEARLY,IN DEATH I LOVE YOU STILL.IN MY HEART YOU HOLD A PLACE NO ONE ELSE WILL EVER FILL.IT
BROKE MY HEART TO LOSE YOU,BUT YOU DID NOT GO ALONE.PART OF ME WENT WITH YOU,THE DAY GOD TOOK YOU HOME " I WILL ALWAYS LOVE AND MISS
YOU! I LOVE YOU NEIL T.
dan overcash
March 16, 2004
thank you for sharing Neil's life with me, He reflects You both well. Know Peace that He is in heaven.
dano
Tina Sawyers
March 16, 2004
Bette & Ray,
I think of Neil daily and of you & Ray and I know that this is such a hardship on you both. I just wanted to let you know I'm here for you at anytime...right next door. I know that Neil was such a good kid and ya'll were the best parents to him. I miss him very much.
neil t. witt III
February 25, 2004
IF YOU CAN DREAM & NOT MAKE DREAMS YOUR MASTER,IF YOU CAN WAIT AND NOTBE TIRED BY WAITING,IF YOU CAN LOSE,START AGAIN AND NEVER BREATH A WORD ABOUT YOUR LOSS,IF YOU CAN WATCH THE THINGS YOU GIVE YOUR LIFE TO-BROKEN,STOOP AND BUILD THEM UP AGAIN THEN YOURS IS THE EARTH AND HEAVEN
SHANE BOLICK
February 3, 2004
RAY & BETTE,
MY HEART GOES OUT TO BOTH OF YOU. I KNOW HOW CLOSE AND STRONG YOUR FAMILY IS. NEIL T. WAS SUCH A GOOD KID. I REMEMBER GIVING HIM A COWBOY HAT QUITE A FEW YEARS AGO, & HOW BETTE WAS SO MAD WHEN HE GOT A SPEEDING TICKET IN MYRTLE BEACH.
NEIL WILL ALWAYS BE HERE WITH YOU.
TO RAY, BETTE, AND THE REST OF THE FAMILY...MY HEART-FELT SORROW GOES OUT TO ALL OF YOU.
Jacob Caldwell
January 30, 2004
My thoughts and prayers go out to the friends and family of Neil.
Jacob Caldwell
January 30, 2004
My thoughts are prayer go out to all the friends and family.
Nikki Urban
January 28, 2004
Neil wasnt only my boyfriend, he was my best friend.The one I could tell my secrets to.Whenever I was in a bad mood , he would always do something funny to cheer me up.I love him very much ,and will miss him terribly. He taught me everything I know about cars.He also taught me how to make a good ham, cheese and lettuce sandwich. I know he is in a much better place now and is watching over us. He was my best friend.If you need someone to talk to, just call me. I will be more than happy to talk. Love you all. -N-
Tim Connair
January 28, 2004
Bette and Ray, I cant express enough sympathy for you two. Neil was such a character and always made everyone laugh, even if he was in a bad mood. If there is anything that yall need to be done, dont hesitate to ask anyone from Starmount. I hope everything is going the best it possibly can for you. Just know that Neil is in a much better place then we are and that all his dreams are coming true as we speak. Again I'm so sorry for the loss of Neil and if there is anything you need just let me know.
Laura Simmons
January 24, 2004
To Neil's family and friends, I would like to express my deepest condolences. He was a great friend with a huge heart and the brightest smile. I am so thankful for all the memories I have with him and he will be deeply missed. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Melissa Ritzel
January 21, 2004
I have worked with Neil for 3 years, and Ive always felt that he was a sincere and genuine person. I will truly miss him, and he will always be in our hearts here at Southminster. My mother( Maryann..Neil's Supervisor) and I will always remember him, and have a special place for him in our hearts. May God Bless You, and my thoughts will be with you.
Deb Steiner
January 20, 2004
Bette and Ray: Unfortunately, I did not know your son Neil, but I feel a strange connection since he and our son share the same birthdate. I cannot imagine the extreme pain you are experiencing from his tragic death. I believe the Holy One is grieving with you and will give you comfort in those who surround you with love and care. You and your family remain in my thoughts and prayers.
rachel tolbert
January 19, 2004
neil was a friend from smith middle and olympic high school. i miss him so much. i lost my father not too long ago, and i understand. i miss you!
Katherine Schubert
January 19, 2004
I want to say how sorry I am for your loss. Neil was a great person and will be sadly missed here at Southminster. I think of him everyday I come into work. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Pat Joyner-Miller
January 18, 2004
I just wanted to say that after reading all the entries in this guest registry you have done an wonderful job raising Neil, and in this day and time that can be a challenge. There are no words that can express our deepest sympathys for you and your family. Our hearts truly ache for you all. But take joy in knowing that he has now met "Jesus Christ" and I know that, that alone should give you great joy and comfort! May God shower you with peace and grace through your time of great sorrow.
To his girlfriend "Nichole" God Bless you as well. Believe me you will be strengthend and grow spiritually through this tragedy! God has great plans for you.
You all will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Tim and Pat Miller
Richard and Jenny Wakefield
January 16, 2004
Bette and Ray......There are no words that can express our sorrow. We just hope that you will put your faith in God and your family and friends right now. Bette, remember i will always be here for you. Don't hesitate to call whenever and i will do the same. I love you.
.
Julia Micallef
January 16, 2004
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I am an Aunt to Roger and want you to know his whole family is saddened with this terrible accident. Our thoughts and prayers are with you...
Julia Pelchat-Micallef & family
Betsy Lisk
January 16, 2004
I only met Neal once, but I have friends who have known him for along time. He was well thought of and will be greatly missed. Wanted you to know how sorry I am for your loss.
Chris Race
January 15, 2004
There are not enough words to express the sorrow my wife and I have for your loss. May God grant your family the strength to see you through this grief.
Rick Cruz
January 15, 2004
Neil was a great friend of mine as to many others he brought much joy to the lives of all his conpanions my deepest sympathies go out to his family and his friends he will for ever be in our prayers and may he rest in peace (Neil you will not be forgotten and for ever hold a special place in my heart)
Debbi Miller
January 15, 2004
Words cannot describe the hurt I feel for what you are going through at this time. Always know that Neil is in the comfort and grace of God's loving arms. Bette-I think your Dad is happy to have his Grandson with him now. You have 2 special people that have earned their wings! Please let me know if I can help. Love, Debbi Miller
Chad Andrews
January 15, 2004
My sincere condolences to the family and friends of Neil. I was the first person to Neils car after the accident and I felt the presence of his family and loved ones. May he always be remembered. He and his family will be in my thoughts.
Deborah Jackson
January 15, 2004
I am a friend of Neil's from Smith Middle School and Olympic High School. I am very sorry to hear about what happened. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Meredith Perry
January 15, 2004
To the Witt family:
I worked with Neil at Southminster in the Food Service department for many years. He was a dedicated worker and a good friend. He will be missed. I am so sorry for your loss.
Sincerely, Meredith Perry
Ginger Kingry
January 15, 2004
Ryan and I are both in shock. This is so tragic. What wonderful memories we have of Neil. He was a so full of life. So smart. Great sense of humor. He could fix anything, play any sport and be smiling all the time. A wonderful son to two great parents. We are going to always miss Neil and always remember him with love and fondness. Our hearts and prayers go out to you Betty and Ray.
May God give you peace during this time.
Love,
Ginger and Ryan
Maryann Ritzel
January 15, 2004
I was Neil's supervisor and friend at Southminster and I will truly miss him. He was a wonderful person and a fine young man.I am so sorry for your loss.My prayers are with you all.
JAN JOYNER
January 15, 2004
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO THE FRIENDS AND FAMILY OF NEIL-MAY HE REST IN PEACE.
Margery Warner
January 15, 2004
Bette and Ray,
We are very close friends of Frankie and Kenneth's and know how much you all loved Neil T. Please know that you are all in our prayers. We know that Neil brought a lot of joy to this world and to his family.
Fred Crawford
January 15, 2004
My deepest and sincere condolences.My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Betty Wagner
January 15, 2004
Such a young life.....doesn't seem to make sense now. Please accept my sympathy and condolences.
Betty Wagner @ Burns Chevrolet-Cadillac.
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