Nila R. Abacajan Selman

I still miss Nila. She was so kind and with a big heart. I can’t believe that she’s been gone this long. I miss her smile

Lisa,
I am so sorry for the loss of your Mom. she was a wonderful, caring and lovely person. I was out of town during the Funeral and could not make on time to attend.
She will be terrribly be missed, especially her beautiful smile, and happy personality.
Call me if you need anything. come see me anythime.

Lisa,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. If I can do anything, please do not hesitate to call me. I love ya!

To Lisa and Tero, my condolences for the loss of your wonderful mother. I may have just one fond memory of Nang Nila when i was just a kid, a long time ago, I could even hardly remember her face , but i know she was a very nice person. She used to visit us, her relatives in the mountainous area in Tapul, before she migrated to the USA. I was really touched and realized how great this small woman is, when i learned that she named her son - TERO. For me, this is one admirable gesture to show...

Thank you to everyone who has commented. We will remember all the things that made us laugh over the years. There are too many to count. It helps us stay strong. May god bless you all. Thank you again for your condolences. We are doing well.

I knew your mother years ago when I worked at the State School. And I have thought of her often over the years. She was always one of my favorite people. Always smiling. Always cooking. Always helping. Always braging about one of you. That is how I will remember her. I am so sorry for your loss.

To the Selman family and Nila's Mom. Thank you for sharing such a blessing with us. Nila was a great person and always had a smile for everyone she worked with at the state school. She was very giving, friendly, and full of joy. Her passing left a tear in every eye of those she touched. Lisa and Tero, you will always carry impressions of your Mothers life and love. But may you find some peace and comfort in treasured memories of her. God bless.

auntie nila, thanks for everything. especially for being at my ordination in place of my mom. you really made her present there. And now, you two are together again.

Hey Lisa, your mom was such a great woman. I loved how she was ALWAYS smiling, sweet and outgoing, your are just like her girl. My parents and Cindy send their condolences. I love you