Oscar-Ruvalcaba-Obituary

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Oscar Ruvalcaba

Mission Hills, California

Mar 30, 1978 – Jan 25, 2020

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March 30, 1978
DIED
January 25, 2020
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Mission Hills, California

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San Fernando Mission Cemeteries and Mission Hills Catholic Mortuary Obituary

Oscar Ruvalcaba, 41, of California, died January 25, 2020, in Panorama City, CA, born March 30, 1978.

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We were friends for a year, a very long time ago. This news is still difficult to hear. Oscars warmth, warmth, and generosity are indelible.

Deepest condolences to your family. Oskar was a treasure in our lives, we miss everyday

Oskar Ruvalcaba was a teacher by action. A fully formed genius. His every moment was artistry. His aptitude was incalculable. As was his empathy. Saying goodbye to someone of such dense humanity seems like overthrowing some universal law. Oskar, you are now in the blood of everyone who knew and loved you. For years I thought your self mastery was your greatest lesson. That was an error. Your greatest lesson was your death. A life lived so correctly, so exquisitely, is going to...

I worked at Toi with Os for a little over a year. I try hard to be a friendly, likable person in a work environment, and a quickly achieved that with most in the restaurant. With Oscar though? It took commitment. Tried small talk and light hearted jokes, only to get a stone cold stare. After a few months of proving myself, he opened up to me. Even gave me a present at the Toi Christmas party. Later found out he liked my character and work ethics the entire time, he was just testing me. That...

My world my love my best friend I love you to the moon and back. The twelve years I had werent enough you made everyday better being with you was the highlight of my life and without you I am completely lost and devastated. I LOVE YOU FOREVER OSO.

I am devastated to learn of the passing of my dear friend oscar whom i have known since jr high school. He was a funny, talented and caring man and i will miss him for the rest of my life. He and i had not spoken in many years since i moved out of state but i always thought fondly of him. Attached is a picture of oscar and i taken in 1997 at malibu creek state park. I miss you oscar. Rest in peace.

Such a hard loss to accept. My heart goes out to his family.

I haven't spoken with Oscar in many years, but I'm so sorry to hear he is gone. I will remember his talent, charisma, and smile fondly.