Otis-Guess, Sr.-Obituary

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Otis B. Guess, Sr.

New London, Connecticut

Mar 15, 1960 – Mar 31, 2025

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BORN
March 15, 1960
DIED
March 31, 2025
LOCATION
New London, Connecticut

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In Loving Memory of Otis Bryant "Dakota" Guess Sr.


With profound sorrow, we announce the passing of Otis Bryant "Dakota" Guess Sr., who departed this life on March 31, 2025, at the age of 65. Born on March 15, 1960, in New London, Connecticut, he was the beloved son of the late Otis Howard and Patricia E. Guess.


A proud graduate of New London High School, Otis was a hardworking man who took great pride in providing for his family. As a CDL holder, he traveled cross-country as a driver for Rogovin’s Moving & Storage, always boasting about his ability to drive anything. Later, he dedicated years of service to the City of New London, beginning in the sanitation department before transitioning to public works, where he built lifelong connections. His children often joked about how a simple drive through town turned into countless stops to greet family and friends—Otis never met a stranger and was always eager to share a smile and conversation.


For over a decade, he worked at Southeastern Area Transit (S.E.A.T.) as a servicer, earning the admiration and hearts of many.


Otis, Native name Dakota, was deeply connected to his Narragansett heritage. He spent much of his time researching his roots and was an active member of the Northern Narragansett Indian Tribal Council. Recently, he accepted the honored position of Sub-Chief for the Northeastern Narragansett Native Nation, a role that reflected his dedication to his people and their traditions.


A die-hard Dallas Cowboys fan, he proudly declared every season as “their year.” His love for music was equally strong, with favorites like New Edition, Boyz II Men, and Otis Redding always playing. He found immense joy in celebrating the achievements of his family, whom he cherished deeply. His children, grandchildren, and great-grandchild were the center of his world.


As best said by his only son and namesake:
"Remember the joy he brought. He was a wonderful man who was called home by God. Let’s remember his spirit, his laughter, and his love—and hold on to that."


Otis leaves behind a legacy of love and devotion, survived by his children: Quineisha Guess, Otis Guess Jr., Domonique Guess, Sheala Guess, and Jayda Guess; his siblings: Sherrie Guess, Laurice Guess-Braggs (Alonzo), Michelle Strother-Moody (Charlie), and Christine Rene-Howard; his brothers: Robert Guess (Edith) and Paul Howard; his grandchildren: Greg Santora, Wilbur Mack Jr., Quinnell Mack, Cheyanne Santora, Malcolm Lyles, Marquan Hooks, Ahlyanah Santora, Messiah Hooks, and Malachi Guess; and his great-grandchild: Nyomi Santora. He is also lovingly remembered by his devoted girlfriend, Valerie Isaacs, who stood by his side until the end, and his ex-wife and the mother of his children, Connie Dixon.


He was predeceased by his children, Jermaine and Angelina Guess; his brothers, Shawn and Larry Guess; his grandchildren, Marcel and Ma’honie Hooks; his long-standing girlfriend and mother of his child, Jesica Faulkner; and his sister-in-law, Lorchele Howard.


Otis also leaves behind a large and loving extended family, including aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins, and countless friends who will forever cherish his memory.


Service to start at 3 PM Byles Memorial Home, 99 Huntington Street, New London. Repast information to be announced. 


 

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My condolences to the Guess family? I hope the next generation of Guess will also make people guess their last name.

He was a good family man, provider I will forever cherish the 4 years we shared together , how he pat me on my head to cute and bought me a dog. Came to my house 2 days before his birthday spent time with me and bazz. Never thought he would pass and that it would be the last time I spent time with him and the last time I would talk to him on the phone the day of his birthday. he had a beautiful soul. I thank god I have 4 years of memories. My deepest condolences to his family he loved deep to...

Sending my deepest sympathies to your family.

It is with sadness to learn of the passing of Otis Guess. I knew he and his family well. Would always see him when I visited my good friend Rosalyn Kelly over on the front porch at the "Kelly´s" compound as I used to call it. Never a dull moment there with all the gang and Otis. Those were great times and fond memories. I know that he will continue to be a pleasant Joy in Heaven with that beautiful smile he wore daily. May his soul rest in peace.

To the Guess family,
The Hardy family ( formally of New London) would like to send our condolences and share that Otis had been my brother Angelos good friend growing up. Otis was such a postive and beautiful soul that shared stories of he and my brothers teenage years that made me laugh and grateful that we spoke. Otis also expressed how proud he was of his kids and grandkids and all he wanted was to retire in the future to spend more time with family. I am saddened by the news of his...

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

My prayers go out to you Dominique Sheala and the rest of your family !! Know that God IS good and he takes only the best

My condolences to all of Otis `s children and family and friends God Bless you all keep the memories of him close to your heart and keep praying for all

Our deepest condolences to Quineisha, Otis Jr. , Dominique, Sheila, Jayda. &all the family. Otis was a great guy. God bless, Kelly& Wes