Pamela -Boyce-Obituary

Pamela Boyce

New York, New York

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A No-Nonsense Life
Sometimes people would see Pamela J. Boyce's direct, no-nonsense style and take it for abrasiveness, says her partner, Catherine Anello. But Pamela, 43, refused to change. "It was similar to slapping someone in the face," Catherine says of the woman she shared a life with in Dyker Heights, Brooklyn. "If there was someone who lost a loved one and had been grieving too long, so that they were not living their life, she would say, 'Stop. It's not what they would want. They are in a better place.' She said, 'I'm not afraid to die because I know where I am going is beautiful.' "

Pamela had been the assistant vice president of accounting in the New York office of Carr Futures, on the 92nd floor of 1 World Trade Center. She was a competitive disco dancer. One of her happiest moments was serving as a Lamaze coach for her sister Desiree when her niece Kristina was born. "She was so neurotic there she had to find something specific on the baby to make sure they got the right one," Catherine said, laughing. "I think she finally found a little mark on her ear."

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Thinking of you as always Keep dancing . love Bernie

Pamela Boyce was a non nonsense boss with an understanding attitude. We got along and even laugh. I hope her family found peace throughout the years and is blessed with their memories of her. God's blessings and prayers always to Pamela and her family

We had some great times. Till we dance together again, RIP. Georgie B.

May her soul continue to rest in peace.

God bless you Miss Pamela Boyce, you are one of many that are in my thoughts on this day of September 11th, gone but never forgotten. ❤

Thinking of you today 9-11 and always.

I'm writing this message to a number of people. Pamela, your spirit. Cathy, my good friend. And to anyone else who reads this. And to the universe. I have come to know Pamela's spirit because of my friendship with Cathy. I am writing this on September 10, 2023. I just received a beautiful package. It looked like a plastic bag with two ears of corn from a farm, and a card with a note, a beautiful note. But it really was, a delivery of love, compassion. I wish I could figure out why the all...

How could it be 20 yrs? The pain in are hearts are still so raw. I will always say your name with a smile on my face and a tear in my eye. Till we meet again Old Friend. xo

This was a sad day you went to heaven early.