Pamela Coats Butler

You are on my mind so much today - it's your little girls birthday. I love you Pam.

kaylee...You're first in my heart during this difficult time. Ralph loves and will be there for you. Your Mommy loved more than anything in this world. Pam, Ralph will see you on the other side. I will miss you so very much until that day comes. I love You ....Ralph

Pam
When they played "Free Bird" at your service, I think that Ralph, Traci, Debbie, Jeff, Amy, Kenny, and me felt your presence so strongly that it was almost as if you were in the room with us. You came alive to us in that moment and we got to be with you one more time in our memories. I love you my sister.

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Pam,
It's difficult to express how much our friendship meant to me. We met in 1999 and you became one of the best friends that I ever could have had - like a sister. Your devotion as a friend was truly unconditional. I laughed at the fact that you didn't like chicken or ham, but you liked spam! I will miss your "spam casserole". The memories of our kids laughing, playing, and swimming together on those hot summer days will forever be sketched in my mind. Thank you for your friendship and...