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My condolences, Ray. I did a construction job for you and Pam many years ago. I am so sorry to hear of Pam's passing and my thoughts and prayers are with you. Glen Kilburg
Glen Kilburg
November 03, 2023


Olympia, Washington
1953 - 2023
Pamela Darby January 6, 1953 - August 24, 2023 Olympia, Washington - Pamela Sue Darby, also known as Pam, passed away on August 24, 2023, at the age of 70 in Olympia, Washington. She was born on January 6, 1953, in Minot, North Dakota, to her late parents, Paul and Elvira Borgers. Pam was...
Read MoreMy condolences, Ray. I did a construction job for you and Pam many years ago. I am so sorry to hear of Pam's passing and my thoughts and prayers are with you. Glen Kilburg
Glen Kilburg
November 03, 2023
I got to know Pam when she worked to prevent substance abuse among Washington state youth. There were many disagreements on how to do this best, but Pam was able to listen and act on the most promising approaches. One of these was to build trust, engagement and collaboration among community leaders. Pam helped do this well. Our research, supported by federal grants, showed that in such communities youth were less troubled and healthier. I appreciated Pam´s smile, empathy and hard work!
Dario Longhi
October 13, 2023 | Work

Single Memorial Tree
Kathy and Terry Raudenbush
September 30, 2023 | Olympia, WA
Pam was such a fun person to go to highschool with and to play violin with in orchestra. I'm sure she will .be greatly missed by you all. Rest in Peace Pam. Holly Pope [email protected]
HollyPope
September 27, 2023 | School
Ray & Bevin, Our deepest sympathies. Jim & Gail Blake
Jim & Gail Blake
September 23, 2023 | Friend
I´m so sorry, Ray. Condolences to you and the whole family. I´m reminded of the fun you and Pam and Jim and I had together playing in the waves at Hapuna beach on the Big Island. I know she´ll be sorely missed. Our thoughts are with you.
Pene Speaks
September 23, 2023 | Friend
Condolences to Ray, Bevin, and all Pam´s family and friends. I have great memories acting, singing, and dancing in many Gilbert & Sullivan operettas with Pam with the Olympia Chorale in the old Abbey Theatre at St. Martin´s and the then new Washington Center. My daughter Brigit and Bevin grew up together and competed in youth sports with us parents coaching and rooting on the sidelines. Pam and I also connected as redheads who represent only 1% of the world´s population. Pam was a great and...
Allen T. Miller
September 23, 2023 | Friend
Ray, so sad to hear about Pam´s passing - she lived a good life with you! My sincerest condolences, Linda Shea
Linda Shea
September 23, 2023