Pamela Mararet Elloway

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

I remember my cousin Pamela when we, my sister Jennifer and I were small, as a very gentle and sensible girl, breathless because of her heart condition. Radiant at her marriage to Richard, her married life was lived far from London where we all grew up. She clearly found a good place to live, made good friends and lived a good life.

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. Our fathers were cousins and Ian Hazel and Pamela are the closest my sister and I have to cousins. I remember visiting Pamela and her brother and sister when we were children,and some bigger family occasions. In later years we rarely met but for a while phoned each other often and always exchange Christmas cards and news. There was always a strong...

So sorry for your loss.