Patricia Marie Cross

I learned Grandma Pat was a no nonsense type of lady from a young age of 8 when she inherited me as her grandson.I still remember her down home cooking Hams, Prime Ribs, Fried Chicken and her famous Potato Salad. She told me the last time I saw her that " I really wanted to Dance at your wedding for the last time" I told her "you will be there and you can dance all night". She smiled "Your right". Thanks for all the great memories Grandma Pat. R.I.P.
Love You,
Gary

Pat played a role in my life that no one else could have filled. I am grateful for what she did for me, and I love her very much.

What a privilege to have had Pat as part of my life. Her courage through her illness set an example for all. Her devotion to Don (and Don's devotion to her) exemplified those things it takes in a marraige to stay the course.

With much love and respect,

To my friend Pat...we had great times together supporting the Republican Party. You were instrumental, along with a few others..educating me in the course of politics. I will miss you and you and your long time support. Bette

"Aunt Pat" was always an incredible person in my life. At times, she was more like a mom to me than just an aunt. Her energy, honesty and laughter were special to who she was and how she will always be remembered by me and my whole family.

My dear Pat, my mentor, my friend, and my confidant, you have left me in this world but I'm sure you are busy looking up all the folks I asked you too and giving them the messages I sent. As you sit up there looking down know that we all love you and we are doing our best to help Don move on. You fought the battle for a long time as a real trouper, we were all so proud of you, you will be missed.
Terry Henderson, La Quinta

Pat sat to my left every Friday for over 15 years as we played a dominos game called "Mexican Train". On the last night we played the game with her there she said, "Ned do you remember when we used to dance together?" How could I forget? We both loved to resort to the old Fox Trot of our youth. Save a dance for me Pat...

Pat was one of the dearest people I have ever known. Loving to her friends and family. Both she and Don have helped us in more ways than I can mention. Their friendship has been a blessing to us.

Pat made invaluable contributions to the citizens of the 45th Congressional District through her work managing the Congressional office for over a decade. There wasn't a moment I couldn't count on her to get the job done - to the highest standards - with grace and humor. To Don and family, my thoughts are with you.