Patrick Hayes

Pat stayed at my house in the Bay Area when visiting for polo practice. We enjoyed coffee in the backyard each morning with him telling me about his favorite travels and an upcoming trip to Costa Rica planned with friends. I liked Pat very much and was glad to see him and meet Sue Ann in Spain. I'm very sorry he's gone and know he was well loved. Much love, Roxanne Dubois

I only knew Patrick for a brief time, but he made an impression on me that he was one of the good guys that walked this planet! It was a pure joy playing mixed doubles with Patrick, a few years ago. I loved his competitive spirit and enthusiasm he brought to every match. He was such an encouraging partner. Never rolled his eyes if I missed a shot. Always encouraged and reassured me that we could come from behind and beat the opponents! I also...

Dedication and zest for life is what comes to mind when we think of Patrick. Swimming laps everyday, playing the sport he loved while encouraging others to excel was his forte. You will be missed dear friend and never forgotten Laura and Kent

Sue Ann I am shocked and saddened by the loss of Patrick. I will continue to pray for you and your family Marianne Sax.

How terribly tragic another supposed human being took your beloved family members life in a fit of rage. It sickens me & I pray justice is served. Pat sounds like such a delightful person & someone who played a vital role in so many lives. May Patrick be playing in the greatest water polo games in the most beautiful of waters & places Condolences to all.

Patrick was a strong and beautiful, bright and shining flame! He was so kind and thoughtful, fun and also joyful!
He will be missed, but his spirit will shine forever!

What a a tragedy. Pat was so very nice to me in and out of the pool over the years . He will be greatly missed. Thoughts and prayers to Pats family!