Patsy Lee Ray Whitby

Aw Pat, I have thought about you over the years my friend. You helped me through the hardest times during the collapse of my marriage. You also helped me accomplish my dream of being a teacher. I had the honor of substituting when your assistant had to go on early maternity leave. I love working with you and learning. You gave those kids everything. Kait even called you Aunt Whitby. You even watched her. She went out with you & Rachel for lunch. She was in the Church's Christmas play. I got...

Our prayers are with you and your loved ones. Ms. Pat was truly a child of God and will be missed by many. May your precious memories sustain you. God bless you.

Our hearts go out to Ray and family in the loss of their dear, devoted wife, mother and loved one. Pat was such a blessing to us for the short time we knew her. We are going to miss her and her smile.

Tom and Mary Hooe, New Bern, NC

The light and love of Pat will shine brighter and longer than this candle ever could...She blessed so many people and will be missed but she is guarding us all from her heavenly mansion.

Mrs Whitby was a very special lady! She was a Wonderful teacher and mentor. Her presence will be missed greatly on this earth. Thinking of your family during this sad time! Shannon Nelson (former Newport Elem. teacher asst)

Pat was a wonderful person, When Ray was pastor at Victory in Newport NC It was a blessing to go their Pat made you feel like you were part of her family my children and grandchildren thought of her as a second mom. But she was like that with every one.
She sure will be misted but I know she is in heaven singing with the angles..

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Ms. Pat was a very special lady. Love ya all!

Hale and Robin Croom