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I know he is in heaven watching over all of us ~ he was a great individual who is missed tremendously.
May 06, 2019 | Coworker


Waterford, Connecticut
1946 - 2018
Waterford - Paul E. Havener Jr., 71, of Quaker Hill, died on Wednesday, May 9, 2018, unexpectedly at home.Paul was born July 29, 1946, in Waterville, Maine, the son of Paul E. and Esther (Brown) Havener. A 1964 graduate of Waterford High School, Paul was employed for 42 years as a senior...
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I know he is in heaven watching over all of us ~ he was a great individual who is missed tremendously.
May 06, 2019 | Coworker
Sorry to hear of your loss. Paul was such a nice man, I am shocked to hear of his passing. He will be missed by all who knew him. Very consoling, happy and positive person. I am sure he is watching over all whom he loved as well as all who have had the privilege to have known him.
May 17, 2018
Barbara & Family
OUR THOUGHTS ABD PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN THIS SAD TIME.
CYNDIE
HIDEAWAY RESTURANT
CYNDIE CARAMANTE
May 15, 2018 | OLD LYME, CT
Sad to see that Paul has passed. I remember him well from my time at EB. They don't come along like Paul every day, and he will be missed. May God bless the family
J Leca
May 15, 2018 | Punta Gorda, FL

To the Havener family,
Hoping your cherished memories and being comforted by family and friends help you cope during this time of sorrow.
From the Marquand family
May 15, 2018 | CT
Dear Havener Family,
I wanted to send a hand-written note but, unfortunately, I don't have any addresses. Paul and I worked very closely on the Save Our Schools committee and his tireless efforts to help preserve our school and community are why Quaker Hill School still exists. He was more valuable to that enterprise than words can say and I enjoyed so much working with him and becoming friends. Although we hadn't seen each other in many years, I still think of him as a friend. He...
Theresa Ammirati
May 15, 2018 | Quaker Hill, CT
Deepest heartfelt condolences on the passing of Paul.
He and I were classmates in elementary and junior high as well as close friends and neighbors when he and his family lived on Reynolds Lane.
I remember fondly playing games many a times with him and brother Dennis in their
backyard.
We loved to play war games that we later played for real during Vietnam.
Although we moved away from Waterford when I was 12, I have often thought of him and his...
Richard Dell'Erba
May 15, 2018 | Keene, NH
My husband Gary and I worked with Paul on and off throughout our Electric Boat careers....he was a hard worker and always tried to help work through any issues...our condolences to the family.
Lisa and Gary Herzig
May 14, 2018 | Stonington, CT
Dear Barbara, Amy, Michael, and the entire circle of Paul's family and friends,
I'm a friend of Paul's from work. We were not at all close, until we passed in the hall or on the sidewalk...and were the best of friends for the time we shook hands, shared a few words, and parted with a hug! That pretty much sums im up!!!
Having lost both parents myself, know, all too well, this very special loss! Understanding the hole left behind, regardless the inevitability or forewarning, pray...
Ray Hamilton
May 14, 2018 | New London, CT