May God bless you and your...
Ten years after you've gone, I miss and think fondly of our times together. A ray has returned to the sun, but the warmth remains.
Michelle Tokarczyk
October 16, 2025 | Friend


New York, New York
Paul Heacock, 59, died 17 Oct. 2015. Dear husband of Carol-June Cassidy and father of Akosua Tyler Cassidy-Heacock (Tim Hull). Son of William and Jean Heacock. Brother of the late Diane Smith. Loved brother-in-law of Francine and Charlie Gebus, Anne-Marie and Mike Ransom, Judy Cassidy and Bev...
Read MoreTen years after you've gone, I miss and think fondly of our times together. A ray has returned to the sun, but the warmth remains.
Michelle Tokarczyk
October 16, 2025 | Friend
To Carol and Tyler - Paul was such a truly kind, warm, witty man. I hope that living without his physical presence has gotten less painful day by day.
Kathleen Corley
October 17, 2020 | Phoenix, AZ | Friend
I often think of Paul when I am walking in the East Village or riding my bike around town. I so miss his wit, his caring, and his friendship.
Michelle Tokarczyk
October 16, 2020 | New York, NY | Friend
I worked with Paul a little bit, and only met him once in London a couple of years ago, but he was plainly a very smart and kind guy who really stood out with his sparkly-eyed enthusiasm & good humour. Everyone on our team was saddened to hear of his death, despite knowing him only a little. Reading the beautiful messages here, it's clear there's a lot to miss.
Mike Donnelly
March 06, 2016 | Edinburgh, Scotland
In the days since Paul has died, I find that memories constantly flicker through my mind. Vacationing at Steve and Elise's, going to Orioles' games, New Year's Day parties. He was an exceptional person will will all dearly miss.
Michelle Tokarczyk
November 01, 2015 | New York, NY
Paul was an amazing man. I will always remember his hearty laugh, his calm demeanor no matter what the challenge, his enthusiastic companionship on the softball diamond, and his deep appreciation for music. What a great guy.
John Rounds
October 29, 2015 | Hoboken, NJ
Gone too soon. Paul, you will forever be in our hearts.
Claudette Rodney
October 27, 2015 | Jarratt, VA
When one picks a best man for a wedding, they're just choosing a good friend or least objectionable family member for that particular day. That feeling may not last for more than that day. Paul Heacock was the Best Man every day I knew him for more than 30 years. Wonderfully irreverent, and thus utterly irreplaceable.
Tom Hughes
October 23, 2015 | Bayonne, NJ
Paul was a wonderful man. I will always remember his smile, his laugh and his great sense of humor. He will be missed by many.
Jon Rosen
October 23, 2015 | Pearl River, NY