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Mindy Schaeffer
December 14, 2004
Mr. Paul
Im just righting to you to let you know i miss you.. letting you know things arent the same without you here, you where like my second dad. All the talks we had. You would always lead me in the right direct, i could always depend on you for everything and you would always be there for me helping me through everything. You where someone very special to me in my life... but somoene so special i never thought i would of had to let go, i know when im swimming though im not alone without u.. i know your right there by my side cheering me on:) all the cookout with crabs we had in the summer.. the pool parties, they will never be forgotten our families have had to many moments to share that would last a lifetime... you will always be in my heart and i promise you little beautiful girls that i love and adore will always be here right by my side, i love them to death as if they where my own sisters i will look out for them, i love you and i miss you... merry christmas... give mrs margie a big hug and kiss for me.. i love you
Your loving Friend,
Mindy Schaeffer
December 10, 2004
TO A GOOD FRIEND,
FOR ALL THE TIMES YOU STOOD BY ME,
FOR ALL THE TIMES THAT I COULDN'T SEE,FOR ALL THE MOMENTS YOU WERE PROUD, YOU MADE OTHERS FEEL GOOD INSIDE YOU NEVER PUT ANYBODY DOWN OR MADE THEM UPSET OR JUDGED PEOPLE UNLESS YOU KNEW THEM EVENTHUOGH YOU NEVER JUDGED THEM
YOU UNDERSTOOD US AND YOU NEVER LEFT SOMEBODY ALONE IN THE DARK.
YOU ALWAYS PUT THE LIGHT IN THEIR WORLD FOR THEM. YOU SHOWED HOPE, JOY, AND LOVE AND TODAY AND FOREVER MORE REST IN PEACE MR.PAUL.
MERRY CHRISTMAS!
November 29, 2004
FAMILY/FRIENDS,
REMEMBER THAT PAUL IS ALLWAYS GONE BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN.
EVERY ANGEL HAS A CLOUD JUST REMEMBER THAT YOU CAN LOOK UP IF YOU NEED SOME HELP, JUST LOOK UP AT PAUL
WE WILL MISS YOU AND YOU WILL ALLWAYS BE LOVED
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 DAD AND FRIEND
holly schaeffer
November 28, 2004
HEY,
I WANT TO TELL YOU THAT I MISS YOU AND THAT YOU ARE IN MY PRAYERS. I HOPE YOU ALL ARE HAVING FUN IN HEAVEN. WHEN WE WENT TO YOUR FUNERAL I WAS CRYING THE WHOLE TIME. I WANTED PEOPLE TO FEEL SORRY FOR ME BUT THEN I REALIZED THAT I DIDN'T LOSE MY DAD OR FAMILY BUT I LOST A GOOD FRIEND.
WHEN MY MOM'S DAD DIED YOU WERE THERE TO SUPPORT HER AND YOU KNEW HOW IT FELT. YOU LOST YOU WIFE AND TO MY MOM, SHE LOST A VERY GOOD FRIEND. YOU GAVE MY SISTER ADVICE ON HER EDUCATION AND YOU TOOK US TO SWIMM PRATICE AND LET US GETAWAY W/ WRONG STROKES AND YOU WERE ALLWAYZ CHEERING US ON AND YOU WERE STILL HAPPY WHEN WE DIDN'T WIN. YOU WERE THERE FOR ALL OUR GOOD TIMES AND WHEN I NEED A GOOD LAUGH, I THINK OF HOW YOU MADE FUN OF MY MOM AND HER HAIR.
YOU DESERVE TO BE W/ YOUR WIFE. WHEN GOD TOOK YOU, HE MENT TO IT WAS YOUR TIME TO GO. YOU WERE THE BRIGHEST MAN THAT I EVER KNEW. I WILL MISS YOU A LOT AND I HOPE YOU HAVE FUN SWIMMING AND EATING CRABS IN HEAVEN
HOLLY
HANNA schaeffer
November 28, 2004
Dear mr.Paul when you crossed to the other side we left you with a crab mallet to practice OPENING A CRAB. you are like the rain and the sun and the cryistals in the snow you shine with great diginty and pride. you stick your head up high. so when i look up at the clouds you are the biggest and the brightest one out their so i know where to find you I will always rember how you were always their for us how you took me and holly to the movies with ariona and kayltin you are the ##########################111111111 11111111111111111111111111111111111 11111111111111111111111111111111111 11111111111111111111111111111111111 1111111111111111111111111 FRIEND AND DAD!!!!!!!!! we will always rember the biggest and the brightest cloud. LOVE HANNA SCHAEFFER
HOLLY
November 28, 2004
HEY YOU ARE PROBALLY TIRED OF HEARING FROM ME BUT I SAW WHAT MY MOM WROTE AND THAT I PUT A CRAB MALLET ON THE CASKET AND SOME PICS SO YOU CAN EAT ALL THE CRABS YOU WANT AND YOU CAN LOOK AT YOURSELF AND LAUGH AT ALL THE GOOD TIMES WE HAD.
LOL
HOLLY
November 28, 2004
HEY,
HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO ALL YOU GUSY AND MERRY CHRISTMAS
HOLLY SCHAEFFER
November 28, 2004
DEAR MR. PAUL,
YOU ARE THE BEST FATHER FOR YOUR GURLZ. THEY KNOW THAT EVERY TIME THEY HAVE A PROBLEM THAT THEY JUST COME TO YOU AND MOMMY AND THAT ALL THEIR PROBLEMS WILL BE OVER. MR.PAUL, YOUR PROBALLY THE MOST POPULAR MAN UP THERE. YOU SOLVED ALL OUR PROBLEMS AND I REMEMBER THE TIME THAT ME AND MY SISTER AND ARINNA AND KAYTLIN HAD SPENT THE NIGHT AND WE HAD WATCHED THE LORD OF THE RINGS AND YOU WERE SO EXCITED TO WATCH IT AND THAT YOU HAD TO EXPLAIN THE WHOLE MOVIE TO ME BECAUSE I DIDN'T UNDERSTAND ANY OF IT. I STILL REMEMBER WHEN WE ALLWAYS HAD CRABS AND THAT WE HAD So0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0 MUCH FUN W/ SWIMMING AND THAT IT WON'T BE THE SAME W/ OUT YOU THIS SEASON. JUST FOR YOU WE ARE GOING TO SWIMM FOR YOU AND TRY OUR BEST TO BE HAPPY AND KNOW THAT WEATHER OR NOT YOUR THERE WE WILL FEEL THAT YOU ARE. AND THAT PEOPLE ON THE SWIMM TEAM WILL NOT BE SAD AND THAT EVERYONE KNOWS THAT YOU WOULD WANT EVERYBODY TO BE HAPPY AS YOU WERE THERE. WE MISS YOU SO MUCH AND EVERYTIME I TALK OR THINK ABOUT YOU ALL THE GOOD MEMORIES COME BACK TO ME AND I STILL THAT I COULD SEE YOU AGAIN AND THAT YOUR GIRLS AND FAMILY, CAN SEE YOU AND MARGIE, BUT THAT IS IMMPOSSIBLE. I HOPE THAT YOU ARE HAVING FUN IN HEAVEN AND THAT YOU ARE ALLWAYS WATCHING OVER US AND YOUR GIRLS AND FAMILY. AND TO YOUR GIRLS KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND REMEMBER THAT YOUR MOMMY AND DADDY ALLWAYS WILL WATCH OVER YOU & THAT THEY LOVE YOU. IF YOU NEED A GOOD LAUGH, REMEMBER WHEN MET ALL THOES CUTE BOYS AND HOW YOU AND ME WERE FIGHTING FOR THEM AND THEY HAD ALLWAYS CHOSEN YOU.
I LOVE YOU MR PAUL AND I ALLWAYZ KEEP YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN MY PRAYERS.HAVE FUN W/ MRS. MARGIE IN HEAVEN
HOLLY
Lorene Schaeffer
November 27, 2004
To my best friend,
I wonder why you had to leave so soon. I never had the chance to say goodbye. I will miss the great times at the pool and swim team. I can't imagine being an official without you. It just won't be the same. You have such a special spirit and I appreciate the friendship we shared. You never judged me, always listened to me, and saw the good in everyone. No one will ever take your place, because your are SPECIAL in every way. You left behind life's greatest gift, those beautiful girls. I know how much you loved and adored them. Likewise, I know. I want to share with them all that I can. Graduation, going to their wedding, seeing their brand new babies. Please know you are gone but never forgotten. I sent you away with a pair of goggles so you can practice your laps. LOL! We love you! Lorene Schaeffer
hannaand lorene schaeffer
November 27, 2004
dear,mr. paul you are like the rain and the sun you will shine like the biggest and brightest light their is out there we are your best friends and like the clouds that cover the moon light because you ARE THe bessest cloud out there.
HOLLY SCHAEFFER
November 27, 2004
HEY, GRLZ
I HOPE U ALL ARE DOING WELL AND THAT U KNOW THAT MOMMY AND UR DADDY R ALLWAYZ WATCHING OVER U.
AS I ALLWAYZ SAY,"EVERY ANGEL HAS A CLOUD" AND UR MOMMY AND DADDY MUST HAVE THE BIGEST CLOUD OUT THERE.U JUST KEEP UR HEAD UP AND 2 ALLWAYZ REMEMDER THAT THEY ARE WATCHING OVER U GRLZ. IF U NEED ANYTHING JUST GIVE ME AND MINDY A HOLLA AIGHT SHORTYYSS... WE LOVE U GIRLZ.. STAY STRONG AND REMEBER WE ALL ARE STILL GOING TO HANG OUT LIKE WE USE TO EVEN THOUGH U LIVE FARTHER AWAY...MINDY SAYS SHE'LL COME AND PICK U UP :)
LOVE,
MINDY AND HOLLY
Peggy Russell
November 19, 2004
To all of Paul's family,
I know that this is a sad time for all of you. It seems to make no sense. You'll talk to each other and remember all the things you loved about Paul, and things that you didn't. In time, you will be able to put all these things into one warm bundle that you can wrap around your heart to keep him close. God bless all of you and keep you in a warm bundle in His heart.
Jeff "Doc" Johnson
November 19, 2004
Tommy,
I know the loss to you and your family seems insurmountable right now. Having lost my brother and father this past year I know how I felt during those times. While we may never be the same we go on living in their honor and memory and do our best every day to make them proud. Please let me know if you or your family and new family ever need anything.
Doc
Debra Matthews
November 18, 2004
Very sudden and very sad. Our thoughts are with Tommy and his family as they grieve through this tragedy. Look out John Belushi, there's a new Blues Brother in heaven!!!
God Bless.
Robin Matthews
November 18, 2004
Paul you will be greatly missed...love from all at the Matthews Family
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