Paula-Grothues-Obituary

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Paula Grothues

SAN ANTONIO, Texas

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September 19, 2020
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SAN ANTONIO, Texas

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Paula Michiels Grothues died peacefully on September 19, 2020 after a long illness.


She was preceded in death by her husband of 67 years, Arthur Grothues; daughter, Maureen Grothues; son, Michael Grothues; parents, Polidoor and Ida Michiels; sisters, Tillie Persyn (Darson), Mary Mendez (Ralph), and Agnes Grothues (Phil).


Paula was the fourth of six daughters born to Polidoor and Ida who were a part of the Belgian farming community in San Antonio.   She worked with her family on the farm and in her teen years took her turn driving produce to the market downtown. She and her sisters were not strangers to hard work.  


Paula and Arthur married after World War II and raised 5 loving children.  After their children grew up and left home Paula loved having family and friends visit, and she and Arthur particularly loved sharing Christmases with their children, grandchildren, friends, and most recently great grandchildren.  Paula and Arthur loved to travel domestically and internationally.  In their later years they enjoyed the fun and camaraderie of group casino trips.  


Faith, family, and friends were the passions of Paula’s life.  She attended daily Mass until her health deteriorated.  She was a member of the Altar Society at St. John Berchmans, St. Luke, and Our Lady of Guadalupe Catholic Churches.  She was a proud member of the St. Luke Craft Group for many years and was a committed volunteer at Christus Santa Rosa Hospital-Medical Center.  She took pride in her community involvement.  For Paula, being able to contribute something to the greater good while meeting new people was not work but fun.  Speaking of fun, friends and family knew that Paula was always ready to play a good game-Canasta, Rook, Bunco, Dominoes—were just a few.  She loved visiting with family and friends.  She lived life large.   And we will miss her and her vibrancy.


Paula is survived by her daughter, Pauline Janert (Ron); sons, Arnold Grothues (Paulette) and Randall Grothues (Renee); grandson Jeffrey Janert (Maki); granddaughters Kathleen Janert (Oren), and Cassidy Rogers Harger (Stover).  She is also survived by 4 great-grandchildren, and her sisters Cecilia Stevens and Lucille Lane.


We would like to thank the staff of Avionn Healthcare for their many years of loving care of our mother in her home.  We also thank the home visit Eucharistic Ministry at Our Lady of Guadalupe Catholic Church for the prayer filled visits during the last year.


 


FUNERAL SERVICES


Visitation will begin at 10:00 a.m. on Wednesday, September 30, 2020 at


Our Lady of Guadalupe Catholic Church


13715 Riggs Rd, Helotes, TX


with the rosary and funeral mass following immediately. 


The gravesite service will be private.


 


MEMORIAL CONTRIBUTIONS


In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in Paula’s name to


Our Lady of Guadalupe Church, Assumption Seminary,


Sisters of Divine Providence, or Oblate Seminary.


For those unable to attend services,


condolences may be sent to the family by signing the online guestbook.

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Yesterday evening, I used my credit card to pay at a store and the cashier said my last name correctly (!) and asked me if was related to Paula. I informed her that Paula had passed almost one year ago and gave her a hug after I saw tears in her eyes. Paula had made such a positive impression on her over the years and this lady said she always wondered what happened. She said she wasn't scheduled to come in to work that day but now understood why so she could get some closure on her friend....

Pauline and Family,

Was very sorry to hear the news of your mom’s passing. I will always remember her welcoming smile and many memories. Certainly a life well lived. She and all of you will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Dear Pauline, Arnold and Randy,
Many prayers and much love to you and your family on behalf of the entire Edelen family. Your Mother will be greatly missed. Many fond memories of your parents.
Nancy Edelen Brown

Our deepest sympathy goes out to the Grothues Family on the death of Paula. She was a woman of faith and we were so blessed to be able to bring the Eucharist to her each week. A mass will be said for her on Sunday, October 18 at 7:30am. May she rest in peace. She had a full and wonderful life. Our Lady of Guadalupe Ministry to the Sick

Dear Pauline and Family,
Your Mother's bright spirit lives on in her family as you all begin to carry on enriched by her inspiring life, kindness, generosity, determination, and faith.
We are happy to have known your Mom and to have been embraced by her . We will remember her joyful laugh and her warm, endearing smile. Love, Patsy and Larry Noll

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Our sincere condolences to the Grothues Family. It has been an honor to know Paula Grothues for many years and to be a part of the Grothues extended family. We have been so fortunate to experience her love and commitment to family through her son, my brother-in-law Randy. Mrs. Grothues always welcomed my sister and our entire family into her home and she was always a welcome member at our family celebrations as well. It was a joy to watch her appreciation of live music, good food and a...

one of my favorite aunts. i can still hear her hollering arnold arthur come in its time to eat out of the back door of her house

My deepest condolences to the family of Paula. I met Paula through the Altar Society at Our Lady of Guadalupe In Helotes. I will remember Paula's big hugs and beautiful smile. When my husband passed away in 2006 she was one of many who were there for me offering beautiful words of support. She will be missed. RIP peace Paula!!