Phil Rusten

1923 - 2011

Phil Rusten obituary, 1923-2011, Mesa, AZ

Phil Rusten

1923 - 2011

BORN

1923

DIED

2011

Phil Rusten Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 22, 2011.
Phil Rusten – Rendezvous at Dawn
"Phil was a human being who loved life and sought adventure over security."
Phil passed peacefully in the early morning of November 21, 2011 at the Hospice of the Valley, Mesa, Arizona. He was 88 years old. Cremation has taken place.
There are many ways to seek adventure. For Phil these included adventures of the mind as he explored and shared ideas, adventures of the creative spirit through his writing and photography, adventures in the wilderness through canoeing and fishing, and adventures of challenge and courage through his three careers and designing and building furniture and two homes. The following adventure, which Phil often reflected on, took place in Kipawa, Quebec in 1964 with his son Eric.
As Phil gave a strong push our 14 foot, 45 pound wooden canoe surged from the shore slicing through the mirror-like surface of the lake. He settled lightly into the stern, pulled his well-worn paddle that fit his strong hands perfectly, and silently dug deep into the still waters of the lake and pulled expertly driving the canoe forward. The cool quiet of the morning was refreshing and energizing. We did not need to speak; we knew the other's thoughts were confident in our skill and knowledge. I, his 13 year old son, worked to match his strokes on the opposite side, striving to make my father proud. As our canoe slid across the still surface Phil scanned the shoreline seeking the perfect fishing spot. The sky grew lighter as the first strands of pink and peach of sunrise glorified this wonderful morning. A loon called plaintively in the distance and as our speed increased we heard his wing tips beat the water as he took flight. We could both feel that today would be a good day for us, and a bad day for walleye, and that soon breakfast would be sizzling in a hot skillet.
We returned from Kipawa stronger and transformed. My father taught me what it means to be a man of goodness, purpose and meaning; how to face adversity and grow; how to experience great joy through companionship; how to respect and become one with nature; and how to never to give up. Through this adventure, my father gave me this gift that keeps on giving, and from what others in our extended family and his many friends say, he also gave this gift of love, learning and adventure to many.
Phil was born in 1923, the first son to Esther and Philip Rusten and grew up on a farm in eastern South Dakota. At fourteen he bought his first camera, which introduced him to what would become his third career. His mother introduced him to the world of ideas and learning and his father taught him the joy of hard work and a job done well. At 19 Phil left the life of a farmer to earn a degree in theology and philosophy at Anderson College in Indiana. It was here where he met and married his first wife Eunice Jones in 1946. A year later, Edith (Ann), his first daughter, was born. Then tragedy struck and Eunice was killed in a car accident.
Phil went on to pursue a master's degree at Oberlin College in Ohio and through friends he met June Weinheimer who was attending college nearby. They married in 1948 and Eric, his first son, was born two years later. After graduating, Phil moved his young family to Boscobel, Wisconsin where Phil became the minister for the Congregational church and his second daughter Ellen was born. His profession as a minister lasted till 1961 when he started his second career as an English teacher in the Ann Arbor Michigan School system teaching at Tappan Junior High and Huron High School. During these years as an educator Phil earned two more master's degrees and designed, built, with his son, a house in a wooded area near Dexter, Michigan and started his third career as a photographic artist. With his wife, he displayed and sold his photographs at art fairs in Michigan and the mid-west and wrote and self-published the first of four books, A Way of Seeing.
In 1979 Phil married Nancy Tyler Mayo and soon after Phil left teaching he continued with his third career as a full time writer and photographic artist. As a team, Nancy and Phil displayed and sold Phil's art at art fairs across the mid-west for 28 years. During this time Phil wrote and self-published three more books: On the Growing Edge, Journeys of the Heart, and Rocks in the River. Each volume is comprised of reflective essays about his life and principles for living a good and meaningful life. They are illustrated by his photographs and punctuated by philosophical aphorisms.
At the age of 66, Phil started a new adventure to design and build his second home with the help of their foster son Bruce Rikli. This 5,900 sq. ft. home was set on a hill surrounded by cedars in a rural area north of Chelsea, Michigan.
In 1996 Phil and Nancy established a winter residence in Mesa, Arizona. After 10 years of seasonal moves, they left Ann Arbor to settle permanently in Leisure World, Mesa, Arizona. It was around this time that Phil retired from his career as an artist at 83 years old.
Not being able to rest and simply play golf, Phil focused much of his energy on becoming an accomplished cook who continually experimented with new foods and crafted enticing recipes that he shared with friends and family across the US, and he became famous for his chocolate chip cookies. He also continued with his photography and writing.
Throughout his long rich life Phil deeply influenced all who grew to know him through his work as a minister, educator, writer and photographer. Phil often commented that he saw his work as an educator and artists as an extension of his ministry.
Phil is survived by his wife of 32 years, Nancy. His brother, David (Sandra) Rusten of Brookings, South Dakota. Three children: Ann (Ben) West of Salisbury, North Carolina; Eric (Om) Rusten of Derwood, Maryland; and Ellen Rusten of Ann Arbor, Michigan. Three step daughters Meredy (Peter) Shima of Saline, Michigan; Shari (Mike) Mueller of Ann Arbor, Michigan; and Jana (Alan) Lown of Milan, Michigan. Twelve grandchildren: Jenny Clement; Erica West; Jason and Maya Rusten; Katie, Megan and Erika Shima; Tina and Lara Muller; Chris (Sara) Mayo; and Tyler and Connor Lown. And four great grandchildren, two nephews and one niece.
Memorial contributions in memory of Phil may be made to: Leisure World Library, 908 S. Power Rd., Mesa, Az. 85206 or toward a bench and plaque to be placed in the County Farm Park in Ann Arbor, Mi. c/o Meredy Shima, 3149 Burberry Court, Saline, Mi. 48176.
A celebration of Phil's life will be held in Ann Arbor in the spring of 2012 on a date to be determined.

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February 18, 2012

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Joe Welch

February 18, 2012

Phil Rusten was my English teacher at Tappan Junior High, it must have been the late 60s. He was terrific, and turned my life in the right direction. I was rebellious and had no use for school classes, and he changed that just by being his enthusiastic, curious, open-minded self. We read books like Dandelion Wine by Ray Bradbury, and wrote papers in which he encouraged our creativity. He loved what he was doing and loved helping us reach inside for what mattered. I'll never forget him. We now have two kids who love learning, and some significant part of that can be traced all the way back to him.

Arryn Hawthorne-Jader

February 6, 2012

Mr. Rusten was my all time favorite teacher. When I was in junior high in 1983 or so, I gave him a poem I wrote about Old Faithful along with a photograph I had taken of Old Faithful. He was inspiring and passionate and faithful to teaching others. I will forever cherish the photograph that I have of his that says on the bottom "our curiosities are the diamonds of our minds." I learned so much from him.

Helen Shepherd

January 12, 2012

Tappan 8th Grade English class seems like yesterday, reading A Separate Peace, bringing in our favorite poems, etc. Mr. Rusten was a really fine person and teacher. We were really lucky to have him.

Marilyn Harrington

December 27, 2011

I just entered our room at our favorite bed and breakfast in Kansas City. I was looking through the books in the room and pulled Journeys of the Heart by Philip Rusten. There were gorgeous and meaningful pictures and words in this surprise recipe for living life. So, I sought to purchase two of his books that are in the room. I googled "Philip Rusten" and the first entry from the search was for the book I had just read. To my sorrow, the second entry was his obituary. He died on November 21, 2011. His sage words will continue to affect people for many generations. I for one, have been blessed by his beauty of words and pictures. Thank you for your life Philip Rusten!

Vernon Smith

December 22, 2011

Phil was my Uncle and one of my favorite people in all the world. Phil married my mother's sister, who died in an automobile accident in the late 1940's. My mother Margaret and father John loved Phil and we loved to stay in touch over the years. On a visit in Michigan in the 1950's, when I was probably 12, he took me out and taught me to fly fish, which I'd never done before and which became a passion I enjoy to this day. Then my mother (who always spoke so highly of Phil) showed me his photography, and his books. His work became a standard to which I aspire to this day. We purchased our first framed photograph at an art fair decades ago, as he and Nancy tended the booth. Then, picture by picture, we filled my office and our home -- virtually every room-- with his fabulous photographic art and each of his books, beginning with "Way of Seeing." I am inspired daily by the way he created the images, especially of roses, but also of landscapes. When visitors ask, I am so proud to tell them that the artist, the author, is my uncle. The Lord gave him a gift, which he used so well. I so admire his work, but we admired him as a person even more, and always valued his friendship and his insights. I will always remember our visits in Ann Arbor and winter visits in Phil and Nancy's home in Leisure World, I truly, truly miss Phil. But of course, in a way few of us could ever achieve, his work will live on forever, and his memory will never fade. We send our prayers and thoughts to Nancy and to Phil's entire family. May you all feel the arms of God wrap around you. God bless you, Phil. Love, Vern and Paula Smith

John Kerr

December 13, 2011

Mr. Rusten taught me writing in English class at Tappan Jr. High. I remember him telling me "Don't ever let anyone change the way you write". Which even then made me know both that he liked it and that there was something unconventional about it. I had never felt that kind of support from a teacher and have never forgotten it. He always had a twinkle in his eye and loved to tell stories of his pet racoons. I would see him at his booth at the Ann Arbor Art Fair in later years and say hello. He was an exceptional man.

John McCormick

December 11, 2011

I will be forever grateful for having known Phil and was proud to have had him for a father-in-law. I credit him with inspiring me to get involved in the pursuit of nature photography, an area which occupies much of my spare time even to this day. Happy trails Phil.

Jennifer Clement

December 11, 2011

I appreciate my Grandfather's way of seeing and capturing the beauty in life. He taught me at a very young age to observe, really observe everything around me and to take great care not to ruin it for the next guy. I'm so very proud to be his Granddaughter.

Lance Burghardt

December 8, 2011

Phil will be missed. I have many splendid memories of the Rusten household as Eric and I shared many adventures in Chelsea, MI when the Rustens lived right across the street in the 60's. Ellen was the little sister running around trying to keep up with her older brother, while we spent hours exploring and getting into as much trouble as we could find. Phil always showed and interest and an appreciation for Nature and his fellow man which I always respected and have tried to emulate. I also have a love of photography and enjoyed seeing Phil's work in an early book of his. I was saddened when the Rustens moved from Chelsea, but the good memories are forever! Love to all the Rustens, family and many friends who were touched by this special person, Lance Burghardt, A2, MI

Paula Rich

December 7, 2011

Dear Nancy,
My heart goes out to youat this really tough time. Phil was a deep, thoughtful, reflective human being and I know you will miss his original, creative and empathic way of approaching life's many challenges. When we all taught at Tappan, I was always proud to be his colleague. May your many great memories help ease the sadness of his passing away.
Paula Rich

December 5, 2011

Dear Rusten Family:
I had Mr. Rusten for a teacher at Tappan in the 1960's. He was one of my favorite teachers. I still have poetry that I wrote while in his class. He was a wonderful person!!
Lisa Reach

a place to reflect........ Belle Isle, Detroit,Mi.

Kirk Donaldson

December 4, 2011

I am so thankful for knowing Phil: his approach to life and his photography. He gave me strong advise and encouragement on my "second" career in photography. I had forgotten his first book was titled, "A Way of Seeing" and smiled at the obvious influence in naming my own portfolio "Seeing". Phil's flower still life hangs on the wall across from me as I work... and my thought is often, " Someday, I'll be like him." Blessing and Peace to Nancy and all the family.

December 2, 2011

Phil was creative, thoughtful, kind, caring. had a wonderful sense of humor and a fun laugh! He also was a great cook. I feel blessed to be able to have called him friend.
Jane Dalton..and Bev (Sturgeon Bay, WI.

Jeri and John Duerr

November 29, 2011

Dear Nancy, When I first met Phil, I was amazed by his talent and diverse interests. I remember going out to Chelsea to pick out a photograph. He explained each one to me, including the thoughts that went through his mind as he composed his work. His photos line our walls. As I looked at them last night, I realized that he will always be alive through his photographs and writings. How lucky for you. May you find peace because of what he left behind.

November 29, 2011

Ellen

Marie VanSchoten

November 28, 2011

Dear Nancy,
It is so hard to lose a loved one and I hope the happy memories you have of Phil will ease some of your sorrow .

Marie VanSchoten

Jo-Anne (Mason) Julius

November 28, 2011

Ellen, don't know if you'll remember me or not, but we played softball together, and I followed you as legal secretary to John Etter. I was saddened to see that you dad passed away. He sounds like a remarkable man. I wish I'd known him. My condolences to you and your family.

November 27, 2011

Dear Nancy, I feel so lucky to have had you and Phil in my life. I will always remember you as my wonderful, talented mentor and friend and Phil as a gifted photographer, writer, and loving husband. I still think with great fondness about your retirment party that Phil hosted, particularly when he gave you the gift of many newspapers. He embraced life with such enthusiasm and intelligence and touched all of us who knew him. Our thoughts are with you and your family at this very difficult time.
Much love to you, June and Dave Griffenhagen

Wendy & Steve Raymond

November 27, 2011

Dear Nancy and family,
I have such fond memories of times with you and Phil. You were both so supportive and inspiring to me as a beginning teacher, and you threw great parties! I could always count on Phil for leads on good books to read, and we continue to cherish his beautiful photos of nature. Please know that you are in the thoughts of many, and that we send our deepest sympathy at this most difficult time.

November 27, 2011

Phil, I thank you for sharing your life, your cookies and most of all your photo's, you have touched my heart.
Michelle (shel) Amstutz (Gilbert, AZ.)

Glen & Eleanor Smith

November 25, 2011

Phil was a remarkable man and we were blessed by his warm and caring friendship. I remember when he drove over to our home in Leisure World on his golf cart with Nancy to deliver some delicious cookies he made for us to take on a trip to Yellowstone. He taught us the joy of giving and was a true friend. We will miss him.

Jason Rusten

November 23, 2011

Grandpa Rusten touched my life in more ways than I can count. His love and the vigor and passion with which he lived his life will forever guide and shape my own life's journey. He will be missed but never forgotten. I am proud to be his grandson and to always have his shining example to look up to.

Lynn Wilkins

November 22, 2011

I'm so glad that Uncle Phil was a part of our family. He was such a warm and caring person. He showed us the beauty in everything around us through his photography and his truly insightful writing, which is a gift to us all.

Ross Wilkins

November 22, 2011

Uncle Phil was a great man and i'm proud to to be his nephew. Ross Tyler Wilkins

Donna and Dave Wilkins

November 22, 2011

Phil will be loved and missed forever - he made my sister complete. He is a keeper but now it is Jesus' turn to keep him.

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