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She died too young. I always loved your mom. Marsee Vander Pluym
Marsee Israel
April 06, 2019 | New York, NY | Friend
Decatur, Illinois
DECATUR - Phyllis E. Sands, 70, of Westfield, Indiana, formerly of Decatur passed away, Saturday, April 9, 2005 in Carmel, Indiana. Memorial services will be 11:00 a.m. Friday, April 15, 2005 at First Presbyterian Church, downtown Decatur. Visitation will be Thursday 4-8 p.m. at Dawson & Wikoff West Wood Street Funeral Home, 515 W. Wood St., Decatur, Illinois. Burial will be private. Memorials may be made to the Community Foundation of Decatur/ Macon County. Phyllis was born November 4, 1934 in Dry Point Township, Holliday, Illinois to Riley S. and Alta, L. Lorton Allsop. She moved to Decatur as a small child and remained there until January 2004 when she relocated to Westfield, Indiana, just north of the Indianapolis area. Phyllis married Stanley Grotjan on June 6, 1953 and produced four children. She married William B. Sands, former Director of Public Works for the City of Decatur on October 6, 1978. Bill preceded her in death on October 2, 1996. Phyllis began her long career at the City of Decatur on May 23, 1960 working for the Police Department and on June 1, 1965 she became the City Clerk for Decatur. . She was the City Clerk for the City of Decatur for thirty one years and retired on May 31, 1996. Phyllis served as Secretary for the Decatur Public Building Commission from October 1997 until October 2001. She served on the City Planning Commission from August 2001 until July 2003. She was a charter member of the Central Illinois Municipal Clerks Organization and served as the Regional Director for the Municipal Clerks of Illinois. After three years of retirement Phyllis was coached out of retirement to run for a seat on the Decatur City Council. She served as a councilwoman from May 1, 1999 until April 30, 2001. Her fondest memories were of her years working for the City of Decatur. She loved city government and continued to keep informed on everything that happened in the City even after relocating to Indiana. She had many friends and colleagues throughout her years working for this city and she will be dearly missed. Surviving Phyllis are her four children, Lori Hively (husband Gary) of Carmel, Indiana, Karen Hawkins (John) of Decatur, Phil Grotjan (Brenda) of Farmersville, Texas, and Kirt Grotjan of Westfield, Indiana. Step children Steve Sands (wife Jan) of Sacramento, California, Peggy Rector (husband Andy) Bloomington, Kent Sands (wife Suzie) Elmhurst, David Sands (wife Mary) Mt. Zion, Mike Sands, (wife Erin) of Decatur. Grandchildren Adrienne and Caitlin Scherer, of Carmel, Indiana, Jordan, Brynn, and Dyllan Hawkins of Decatur, Andy and Kacy Grotjan of Farmersville, Texas, Tyler and Natalie Grotjan of Glendale, Arizona, Katie and Maggie Sands of Elmhurst, Mac and Ben Rector of Bloomington, William Sands of Decatur, Emily and Sara Sands of Sacramento, California. Great grandsons Ethan William Hanson of Decatur, Brother Garry Allsop (Barb) of Decatur, sister Beverly Allsop of Centralia, and many nieces and nephews. Her parents, husband William and sister Shirley Craig preceded her in death. Obituary written by family members. Online guest book at www.legacy.com/herald-review/LegacyHome.asp
This obituary was originally published in the Decatur Herald & Review.
She died too young. I always loved your mom. Marsee Vander Pluym
Marsee Israel
April 06, 2019 | New York, NY | Friend
Dear Phil, Kirt, Lori and Karen,
I was so sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. I only met your mom one time but I enjoyed our visit and always heard nice things about her through Phil. You will miss her dearly, I know. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Cherish your memories. Sincerely, Jane Innis (Smith)
Jane Innis (Smith)
April 20, 2005 | St. Louis, MO
Dear Lori and Karen,
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. Mother's are such a blessing and it's an incredibly sad day when they leave. My heartfelt sympathy to you and your families.
Jonna Willis
April 16, 2005 | Dallas, TX
Lori,Karen, Phil and Kirt, I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. I have such fond memories of being at your house and laughing. Your Mom will always be as I remember her, very young and very beautiful. I'm sorry I am not closer, I would of loved to have been there for all of you. With deepest sympathy, Love, Ellen
Ellen Emas-Wright
April 16, 2005 | Kaukauna, WI
LORI, KAREN, PHIL AND KURT,
I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR MOTHER'S RECENT PASSING. PLEASE ACCEPT MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. I KNOW SHE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED.
FONDLY,
KRIS GILLESPIE
KRIS GILLESPIE (PETRUCHA)
April 15, 2005 | ENGLEWOOD, CO
Lori, Karen, Phil, & Kirt, I'm very sorry to hear of Phyllis passing. I remember her as a young, vivacious woman, truly ahead of her time and an inspiration to all. My deepest sympathy to you and your families. Jenny Molloy
Jenny Molloy
April 14, 2005 | Tampa, FL
Lori,
So very sorry for your loss
God Bless,
Steve
Steven Johnson
April 13, 2005 | Las Vegas, NV
It was always so very interesting to watch Mrs. Sands during the City Council Meetings. God's blessings goes to the family.
Dick and Lou Oliver
April 13, 2005 | Decatur, IL
I spent 12 years on public commissions in the City of Decatur, all of that time dealing with Phyllis on a regular basis. She was always prepared, knowlegable, courteous, and most of all willing and able to try make people like me be more like people like her. She was a very special lady!
Jim Schiller
April 12, 2005 | West Palm Beach, FL