He was born April 16, 1917, in Montreal, Canada, son of Ralph Lucas Clark and Sarah Grames Clark. He was a descendant of Henry Ward Beecher, Harriet Beecher Stowe, and Hannah Dustin.
He married Jeanne Riddiford Chalmers on June 22, 1946. She predeceased him on April 13, 2006.
Ralph, a well-known local resident, was active in many organizations. He was founder and president of the Waterford Canoe Club and served as an alternate on the 1968 U.S. Olympic Committee for canoeing, representing New England. He also served as a U.S. member of the North American Canoe Racing Committee. The highlight of his canoeing career was in 1967, when he led a crew of seven Waterford Canoe Club members on a canoeing trip from Waterford to Expo '67 in Montreal via the Hudson River. He was also on staff of the Mystic Marine Museum for several years.
Ralph was past president of Waterford Little League South, past president of the Waterford PTA Council, a member of the Waterford RTM, moderator of the town meeting and served on the shellfish and harbor management commissions. He was past president of the Harbor Club and a charter member of Crossroads Presbyterian Church. He was a member of the Whalers Duplicate Bridge Club of Waterford.
He served as a State Fire Warden for 25 years and was a life member of Goshen Fire Department, Waterford. He was a member of the Niantic Bay Yacht Club and a member of the American Schooner Association and raced as a navigator on various schooners.
In 1986, he received an outstanding service award as a super volunteer for "untiring efforts on behalf of the Waterford Public Schools" from the Waterford Administrators and Supervisors Association. In 1993 he received the VFW's American Award and a Certificate of Appreciation from the town of Waterford. Ralph was in charge of construction for the road, parking lot, and bridge to Waterford Beach. He also constructed 40 ball fields in Southeastern Connecticut.
Ralph was assistant football coach in charge of kicking at the Coast Guard Academy, New London and Katonah High School, Katonah, N.Y.
Over a period of 10 years he traveled to British Honduras (today called Belize) and arranged delivery of three tons of school books donated by Waterford Board of Education for children of British Honduras.
Mr. Clark left Electric Boat in '42 to enlist in the Army Air Corps during World War II where he served as a rifle range supervisor. After the Army, Mr. Clark was assistant commandant at Admiral Billard Academy, director of Waterfront and captain of Schooner Yankee, a training ship for cadets.
He graduated from Mitchell College in 1949 and began building houses and later became a prominent blaster in southeastern Connecticut for many years. He also designed and built rope products for Jayfro Athletic Supply Co. for 12 years.
Ralph is survived by two sons, Stewart and his wife, MaryAnn, of Waterford, and Charles and his wife, May, of Anchorage, Alaska; a daughter, Priscilla Clark Peabody, of New London; five grandchildren, Scott Johnson, Jeffrey and Peter Clark, Jennifer Bergeson, and Raymond A. Peabody IV; four step grandchildren and eight great-grandchildren.
He was predeceased by a step granddaughter, Lisa Dedrick.
A memorial service will be held at Crossroads Presbyterian Church, Crossroad, Waterford at 11 a.m. on Saturday, June 17, 2006. The family will receive friends at the home of Priscilla Peabody, 321 Crystal Avenue, New London, beginning at 4 p.m. on Friday, June 16, 2006.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Cancer Society, 238 West Town St., Norwich CT 06360.
Fulton-Theroux Funeral Home, New London is handling the arrangements.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Pat Brule
June 4, 2006
To all family members, I send my condolences to you. I remember your dad from my days on Country Club Dr. God Bless. Love, Pat Brule
SUZI MANSFIELD
June 1, 2006
DEAR S"T"U AND MARYANN
MT THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU DURING THIS MOST DIFFICULT TIME.
SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT BOTH YOUR PARENTS PASSING IN SUCH A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME MAY GOD BLESS YOU .LOVE SU"Z"I
Sandra C. Oney
May 30, 2006
To Ralph's family,
My sister Candy, my brother George and I all wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you all during this difficult time, and are hoping that you are celebrating a wonderful life. We truly believe that, since the Yankee got to Heaven before Ralph, that she is awaiting his pleasure to cruise along with our father, Waldo ("Brud") Clarke the clouds for all eternity. Sandra Clarke Oney, Candy Clarke, George Clarke
David B.
May 29, 2006
Didn't know your Dad, Stu, but after reading of him, I feel it was my loss.
My thoughts are with you and Mary Ann at this time.
Karen Nodine (Norton)
May 29, 2006
Maryann and Stu,
I was sorry to hear about Stu's father. I didn't know him but i wish to send you both my condolences.
Rev. Gerald Waterman
May 29, 2006
Stu, Priscilla, Mary Ann and family,
Please accept hy heartfelt condolences an the loss of such a fine man! God give him the heaven he so deserves!
Peace, Cousin Fr. Gerry
RICK B
May 29, 2006
God bless his soul.
I only got to meet Mr. Clark one time at a family gathering, yet I'll never forget him.
Instantly friendly, he was quick to engage me in the most interesting conversations punctuated with his sparkling wit and humor. I miss him already.
My condolences To Stew, MaryAnn and all his family.
Doug and Mary Craig
May 27, 2006
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
Doug and Terry Peabody
May 27, 2006
To the Clark Family: Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. We have many fond memories of Ralph, we always enjoyed his stories and the experiences he related to us when he came to the office to get blasting permits through the years.
Chris
May 27, 2006
I could tell right away Mr. Clark was a nice man. I only met with him a few times at Bayview while I was visiting. He told me to sit down and take a rest one day. We chatted a bit. I know he must be at peace now. I send my condolences to the family I know he will be missed but not forgotten.
Betty Montgomery
May 27, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Your parents' will be missed in the community where they were so active.
Betty Montgomery and Beverly Foss MD
Ethel &Jim Kyle
May 26, 2006
Chuck, Stu, and Beanie
The fond memories of racing and cruising with your Dad endure , and the bridge games with Ralph and Jeanne were amng our favorate pastimes. We miss them both
All our Love, Ethel & Jim
Fred Holth
May 26, 2006
Wasn’t it a grand feeling to be in the company of Ralph Clark! The waters of Long Island Sound have lost their finest champion, and the schooners that ply those waters their first patron. And the young their first protector.
We began to sail north with Ralph twenty years ago and never knew if we we were fair in introducing him to Nova Scotia or Nova Scotia to him. The curator of Lunenburg’s museum found himself driving three miles to get Stockholm Tar for Ralph 15 minutes after meeting him…the owners of a Yarmouth bed and breakfast came out in a dinghy to meet us with home baked bread the year after Ralph visited with them while hitch-hiking from Halifax to Yarmouth, thereafter convincing a fellow in the Portland Maine bus station that night to drive him to Connecticut for twenty dollars…the gawkers at the Halifax Maritime Museum believed they were watching an exhibit as Ralph placed footropes on the shrouds from a bosun’s chair twenty-five feet off the deck…a Baddeck Yacht Club member gave him prized deadeyes from the wreck of the Yankee after he had been to the Cape Breton cove where it lies sunk.
The residents of Maine faired equally well. Wayfarer Marine’s owners were mailed a proper model (built of string and wood) of the sheave alignment for their crane following Ralph’s departure from a Camden stop. On arriving one foggy morning from an overnight run to Stonington, Maine he wanted to see it on the chart. Why? He had rented a house there one winter to cut all the lumber to build his Waterford house.
All moments afloat and ashore with Ralph had a special luster. He refused to sleep below decks – and the insistent clumping of his boots overhead at dawn announced that he was up before anyone else and wanted to gently urge someone to make breakfast (which he would quietly share if he had to make it himself). Morning ablutions involved an apron (made by Johnny Clarke at Billard Academy in 1940) holding his towel, shoe polish, toothbrush, toothpaste, razor, and a partially toothed comb - shaped to his head from its 60 years usage. God forbid that there was no candy, or whole milk, or if there were mayonnaise or mustard on a sandwich. Presented with two pounds of jelly beans at the Mayor’s Cup in Manhattan, he had polished them off by Greenwich on the return trip. We were treated to homemade pie at the start of any trip, and a stream of his handmade canvas products and the comforting aroma of his pipe smoking from its charred miniscule remnant of a bowl. His sheath knife he’d made, and it served every purpose from cutting meat to severing a hawser.
We would call Ralph a week or so, sometimes less, before leaving – and he was always ready to go. Midway between Cape Cod and Nova Scotia, when asked if he had any trouble leaving his job at Mystic Seaport to go he replied “I asked them if I could go and they said no… so I quit.”
As a bridge player, he always trumped the innocent inquiry. A kayaker at Mystic Seaport wanted to know where he had canoed from Waterford. Told he had gone to Montreal via the Hudson and Erie Canal, she innocently asked if it had taken all summer. He answered that it had taken 13 days in the Indian War Canoe in which he made the trip, but that it had rained one day, and that they beat the powerboats, lock to lock..
Life on the steamboats along the Yukon, pickup truck trips to South America, blasting in the Niantic River, handmade exercise weights for Seaside residents, the need to get home to harvest his melons, yarns and jokes, an unparalleled visual image in Khaki with only the most occasional glimpse of his uncapped head…Ralph Clarke was all these things and more, ever so much more.
He bridged the age of steam to the twenty first century as no one ever has or ever now will, with great appreciation and unmatched timing and humor. We miss him.
Eric (Rick) Bailey
May 26, 2006
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Travis Burns
May 26, 2006
I have many fond memories of being with Ralph. One I remember most was he and I were in the woods in Lyme cutting trees for pilings for NBYC one hot day. I had nothing to drink and he had his Coke. We shared it. Best Coke I ever tasted. He will be missed.
Debbie Wiseman
May 26, 2006
Dear Stew & Maryanne and Beannie and families,
Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time. May your memories give you comfort and strength.
Debbie and Neil Wiseman
Shirley Alderson
May 26, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy in the loss of your father. He was quite a guy!
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