Bristol, Burlington, Harwinton, Connecticut
ALENDER, Raymond M. Raymond M. Alender, 73, of Bristol, husband of Julie (Michna) Alender, passed away unexpectedly Monday, (July 7, 2008) at his home. Born in Hartford, August 13, 1934, son of the late Frederick J. and Louise (Bergin) Alender. Prior to retiring in 1999, he was employed by...
Read MoreHi Julie, and family. I just heard about Ray and I am very sorry. I have alot of memories about your family. He will not be forgotten. I would love to get together with you.
Linda Roberge(Poirier)
September 05, 2008 | Simsbury, CT
Ray was a good friend and he will be greatly missed. His long time friends Ken & Edith Lundy (96 & 91), and I were fortunate to have enjoyed memorable moments with him over the past several months prior to his passing.
We extend our condolences to his family which he was very proud of and spoke of often.
Michael Mannix
July 23, 2008 | Newington, CT
Dear Julie and Family,
Just wanted to say that Ray was a special person in many ways. He took good care of me with my car purchases at Lee Chevrolet, always there when there was a problem. He was so talented in his wood working adventures. I know he will be making something special for X-mas for all of his angel friends.
Joe and Marion Solgovic
July 11, 2008 | Torrington, CT
Bonnie and family,
I am so sorry that I won't be able to attend the services for your dad. I will be there in spirit and please know that I haven't stopped thinking about you and your family since I heard the very sad news about your dad. Although I only met your dad a few times, I know that he was an amazing dad and a caring, kind, very involved, special grandfather. Please know that you and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers. I know your dad will live on forever in...
Linda Barisano
July 09, 2008 | Newtonville, MA
GARY AND FAMILY YOUR FATHER WAS TRUELY ONE OF A KIND AND HE WILL BE MISSED VERY MUCH. HE KNEW ME FROM A YOUNG BOY AND WAS ALWALYS THERE FOR ME IN MANY WAYS THROUGHOUT MY LIFE. IT HIT ME PRETTY HARD WHEN I FOUND OUT WHAT HAD HAPPENED. I KNOW RAY WILL ALWAYS BE AROUND IN SPIRIT. I ALWAYS THOUGHT OF RAY AS A SECOND FATHER HE WAS AND ALWAYS WILL BE THE BEST.
willard screen jr
July 09, 2008 | Bristol, CT
Our "Deepest Sympathy" to all the family, at this most difficult time. As cousins, we have always remained close, and we continue to do so in our thoughts and prayers.
Jane & Al Furnari
July 09, 2008 | Bristol, CT
Gary & Debbie,
Your father was and always will be a kind man with a friendly heart. Our thoughts are with you now and always.
Love,
Renae and Kevin
Renae LaRocque
July 08, 2008 | Bristol, CT
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Leslie Coppola
July 08, 2008 | New Britain, CT
