DEAN, Raymond "Ray" Wesley Sr., 52, of Mechanicsville, entered into eternal life on Wednesday, October 7, 2009 after his courageous and valiant battle with cancer. He was preceded in death by his parents, Wesley and Lucille Dean. Ray is survived by his loving and faithful wife of 24 years, Carol Lynne Dean; daughter, Megan Dean; son, Wes Dean; sister, Joyce Edwards; niece, Tammy Douglas; nephew, Scott Edwards; mother-in-law, Mildred Rigsby; sister-in-law, Cindy Martin; and a host of relatives and friends. He was employed with the Richmond Public Schools Department of Plant Services for 23 years. Ray was an avid fisherman and hunter and a devoted member of Rural Point Hunt Club. The family will receive friends from 2 to 8 p.m. on Friday, October 9, 2009 at the Mechanicsville Chapel of Bennett Funeral Home, 8014 Lee-Davis Road, where funeral services will be held at 2 p.m. on Saturday, October 10, 2009. Friends and family are invited to bring cards and notes sharing their memories. Graveside services will follow at Forest Lawn Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made for Wes' college education to First Market Bank, c/o Raymond Wesley Dean Jr., 7279 Bell Creek Rd., Mechanicsville, Va. 23111.
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.
We will miss you but our memories of times spent go way back. We knew he recently lost his father so be comforted he is with him. That smile,R.D. will always remain.
The Falwell sisters
October 12, 2009 | Mechanicsville, VA
Carolynne, Megan,& Wes,
David & I are heart broken for your family, you have been through so much during the last few years. Ray was such a quiet, sweet, person with an infectious smile. I remember him years ago when he was playing softball, against my husband, how competitive he was & loved the game. Mr.& Mrs. Dean would follow all of his games. They were so proud of him.They loved you all so much.
Know that Ray is still all around you and draw from his strength. It will not be...
October 12, 2009
So sorry to hear of your loss. Our sympathy to you and your family and may God comfort you at this time and in the days ahead. Joyce and I were good friends when we were growing up and I will always remember Ray as Joyce's little brother. Please give our regards to Joyce and let her know our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time.
Donald and Joyce Mende
Joyce Mende
October 11, 2009 | Mechanicsville, VA
To the Dean Family,
My Family and I pray for your comfort during this time of bereavement. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. It was my pleasure to have known Ray for the past two years that I have been at Plant Services.
Andrew Davis, Plant Services Director
October 10, 2009
To Ray's Family:
You don't know me but I am in the Dean Family also . . . just a little down the line. I tried to write this yesterday and for the first time, I was at a loss as to what to write. This is such a shame. To the children: you have endured something terrible and all I can say is please let this make you a stronger person. Take the pain and memories from this and use it in a positive way rather than be angry. Mrs. Dean, I know you are hurting and will be lost for a while...
Janis Gaulding Peace
October 10, 2009 | Carrollton, VA
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sadness. Ray's memories will bring you much comfort at this time & in the future. He will always be close to his family.
Sammy & Pam Schools
October 09, 2009 | Mechanicsville, VA
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Samantha Martin
October 09, 2009
Dear Carol Lynne:
You may not remember me, but you were my Deacon for many years at New Hanover and you were always so kind and loving to me. It saddens me to see that your husband, Ray has passed. I pray the Lord surrounds you and your children with peace, comfort, and strength during this difficult time for your family. May God Bless You.
Debbie Witmoyer
October 09, 2009 | Henrico, VA
Carole Lynne - I am so sorry to learn of Ray's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Wayne Samford (Wyeth - retired)
October 09, 2009
