Raymond J. Smith

My dad was the finest gentleman I have ever known.
Some people say the true test of character is when you do the right thing even when no one is looking. That was Dad. He genuinely liked his fellow man, and thought the best of everyone. People reciprocated – you couldn’t meet him, or see that twinkle in his eyes, without seriously liking him. He wasn’t flamboyant or showy – and in fact avoided ever being the center of attention. Instead, he was the humblest and most unassuming sweetheart...

Ray was wonderful in all of his roles- husband, father, grandfather,uncle and friend. He was a great man - perfect in my eyes. He was one of the few who talked the talk AND walked the walk. He was the example of a person that all humans should follow. I never heard Ray say a bad word about anyone, or have judgement about anyone. He treated everyone with kindness and respect and gave to those who were less fortunate. He was a true leader and role model through good times, bad times...

Ray was a special, kind and gentle man. His smile could light up a room and spread sunshine in even the darkest places. His devotion to his wife, Joan, was an inspiration to us all. Please watch over us as we need as many Angels as we can get these days!! Give Christopher a hug for us--we miss him everyday. We are so glad we got to know you--we have been changed for good.

Ray was a special, kind and gentle man. His smile could light up a room and cast sunshine in even the darkest places. His devotion to his wife, Joan, was a great example to us all. Please watch over us as we all need all the angels we can get these days. Give Christopher a big hug from all of us. So glad that we got to know you--we have been changed for good.

For all those who would like to see why Mom snapped him up 54 years ago..........

We'll all miss you, Dad, but your example and kind spirit will live on in our hearts, I promise you. You taught us well and showed how to live, love and do our best; can't ask for anything more. You were a man I would be proud to be half of.

We love and miss your sweetness already, dear Ray. I will never forget the gentleness and humor that was you. Give Chris a big hug from us. Much love, Lisa, Jack, Zoe and Lucy.

Ray you were, truly, a gentle soul. It was my privilege to know you. Thank you for your good example on how to live life. I will miss you.