Rebecca Ann Lender

Maranda, I don't know your family but this story touched my heart. I have no words adequate to even ease your pain so I'll just say, my husband and I are thinking of you and hope your loved ones are able to comfort you.

Lender family, Although I don't know any of you, I'd like to offer my sincerest sympathies on your loss. I cried for you all after reading the New York Times article . My condolences from St. Louis

I was a former neighbor in her small childhood days. She was so beautiful and had a sparkly personality! I miss the entire Gill family. I watched when they moved their house.

So sorry for your loss!

MARANDA ALTHOUGH I DONT KNOW YOU , YOUR MOTHER BECKY SPOKE OF YOU OFTEN. I MET YOUR MOTHER WHEN SHE WORKED AT THE RECYCLING PLACE AT THE DEPOT. YOUR MOTHER SOLD ME LOTS OF GOOD STUFF.EVEN THOUGH I RETIRED 12 YEARS AGO I REMEMBER YOUR MOTHER BECKY WELL. I ALWAYS ENJOYED TALKING AND SEEING HER. I WAS SO SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS OF YOUR MOTHER AND YOUR FATHER. MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES GOES OUT TO YOU AND ALL OF YOUR FAMILY. REST IN PEACE

Becky was a co-worker and neighbor but most of all she was my BFF. We went on many trips together, sat on our porches together, planned parties, crocheted and swapped patterns but mostly we laughed...she was a good friend..the best...She tormented me at X-mas with the song Grandma Got Runover By a Raindeer she knew I hated that song!! But I would gladly listen to it again if you were here with us! Becky had a big caring heart and instinctively knew if you need to talk..I will miss her...

The Lender family is in my thoughts and prayers. My heart has aches for you since hearing the news. I listed as a co-worker, but I am blessed to say I was a friend. I first met Becky many years ago through work, but we always seemed to have conversations about our families and always proud stories. Anyone that knows me and Becky , knows neither of us were ever shy or at a loss for words, but sadly I am numb and speechless.

God bless you and keep you, Maranda. I worked with your mother, off and on, for over 25 years on the depot. She was a wonderful person and it was always a pleasure speaking to her. My heart aches for you. She will be greatly missed by her work family.