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Richard John Bender

1945 - 2017

BORN

1945

DIED

2017

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Purdy & Kerr with Dawson Funeral Home

409 West Main Street

Monroe, Washington

Richard Bender Obituary

Richard John Bender, 72, passed away unexpectedly November 11, 2017. Please join his family for a memorial service on December 2, 2017, 1 p.m., at the First Baptist Church in Sultan, WA. A celebration of Richard's life will follow immediately at Bubba's Roadhouse until 4 p.m. Arrangements entrusted to Purdy & Kerr.

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Published by The Herald (Everett) on Nov. 22, 2017.

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Wendy Miller

December 3, 2017

Walk without growing weary you left memories comfort to your family

Kay Kuhns

December 2, 2017

Mr. Bender (always Mr. Bender) was a fellow teacher at Franklin H. S. He was funny, dedicated and hard-working - a pleasure to know. He also taught my son math - my son said he was the best math teacher he ever had - he was strict but helpful, making the students feel confident in their skills. I will always think of Mr. Bender with a smile.
My condolences to his family.

Steve and linda Porthen

December 1, 2017

Richard you were a true friend, we will miss our time together.

Nan McCutchan (McCollum)

November 27, 2017

I also had the pleasure of having Mr Bender as my math teacher at Franklin HS in the 80s. He made such an impact on me, I always wanted to track him down so I could let him know what he meant to me. He was gruff on the outside but a total teddy bear and really cared about his students. He will be missed! Condolences to his family.

Bruce and Annette Taylor

November 26, 2017

Richard you will be missed. Such a wonderful friend and neighbor. Boomer and Annette

Dallas Robinson

November 26, 2017

Mr. Bender,

I had the pleasure of having you as a substitute and working alongside you in the classroom. You were one of the kindest guys I ever met. Thank you for your service over the years as you have touched the lives of hundreds of people in a positive way.

Hank Fu

November 26, 2017

Mr. Bender,

You have made a positive impact in my life during the three years that I was in your class, you are always in my heart.

Class of 1989

Patrick Hirang

November 25, 2017

Loved Mr. Bender when I was a senior at Franklin High, 1987 - 88. He was very funny because when he called your name out loud unexpectedly he wanted to see if you were paying attention or not. Condolences to his family.

Patrick Hirang
Franklin High, Class Of 1988

Jessie

November 25, 2017

I remember Mr.Bender always made time before and after school as well as lunch to help support my math learning. He was always kind and supportive even when I was frustrated and upset with myself. I appreciate having had him as my teacher.

November 25, 2017

Mr. Bender was a favorite teacher to me and my friends at Franklin High School (class of 89). He was so kind and caring and he made us all laugh with his gruff sense of humor. I had always hoped to see him again one day to tell him just how much of an impact he made on us. I'm sorry I didn't get the chance. RIP Mr. Bender. I hope you knew how much you meant to us. We'll be sharing our favorite Mr. Bender jokes and remarks for years to come. You are gone but not forgotten.
My deepest condolences to Nancy and the family.

Tonya Blair

November 23, 2017

My condolences to the family. I was sad to hear of his passing . I was lucky enough to have Mr Bender as a teacher at Franklin in the 80's.

Rick Shigaki

November 23, 2017

Thank you Mr. Bender for teaching us more than just math. Thanks for the high standards you expected from your students and your passion you brought to your craft everyday.

Denise&Dave Bushaw

November 21, 2017

So sorry for the passing of Rich.He will be truly missed. The 4th of July Parade on Dryer Road will never be the same. May he rest in peace.God Bless your family Nance.

kathy oxford

November 20, 2017

my loving brother Richard yu will be missed more then words can say love you very much

November 14, 2017

May God's loving kindness comfort you and help you through this very sad time
Psalms 29:11

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Memorial Events
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Celebration of Life

Bubba's Roadhouse 924 W Stevens Ave Sultan

WA

Dec

2

Memorial service

1:00 p.m.

First Baptist Church 315 8th St Sultan

WA

Funeral services provided by:

Purdy & Kerr with Dawson Funeral Home

409 West Main Street, Monroe, WA 98272-0118

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