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Monsignor Richard L. Tofani

Mount Laurel, New Jersey

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Monsignor Richard L. Tofani, pastor of Our Lady Queen of Peace Parish, Hainesport, N.J., who once referred to himself as the "luckiest priest in the diocese", died while on vacation, Aug. 29, 2013, at the age of 61. Well known for his love of the poor and dedicated work as diocesan director of missions, Msgr. Tofani served all of his 34 years as a priest in the Diocese of Trenton. There will be a visitation from 6 to 9:30 p.m. on Thursday, Sept. 5, at Our Lady Queen of Peace Church, 1603 Marne Highway, Hainesport, N.J. 08036. On Friday, Sept. 6, A Reception of the Body will be at St. Isaac Jogues Church, 349 Evesboro-Medford Road, Marlton, N.J., at 2 p.m. Calling hours will follow until 6:45 p.m. The Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 7 p.m. Interment will be private at Mount Olivet Cemetery, Wyoming, Pa. Arrangements are by Mount Laurel Home for Funerals. Born in 1951 in Oak Park, Ill.,, one of three sons to the late Leo and Irma Tofani, Msgr. Tofani moved with his family to New Jersey and joined St. Peter's Parish, Riverside, N.J., which is now part of Jesus the Good Shepherd Parish, Riverside. He was a graduate of St. Peter's School, Riverside, and Holy Cross High School, Delran, N.J. Msgr. Tofani attended St. Joseph's University, Philadelphia, Pa., from 1969 to 1973, where he earned a bachelor of science degree in accounting. Following his college graduation, he took a job with Ford Motor Company as a district sales analyst. While still at Ford, Msgr. Tofani heard and answered a call to the priesthood and began studies in Mount St. Mary's Seminary, Emmitsburg, Md., where he was awarded a master of divinity degree in theology and a master's degree in sacred scripture. Msgr. Tofani served in Holy Name Parish, Delran, during his transitional diaconate year, and was ordained a priest on May 19, 1979, by Bishop George W. Ahr in St. Mary of the Assumption Cathedral, Trenton. Following his ordination, Msgr. Tofani returned to Holy Name Parish as a parochial vicar, followed by assignments in Our Lady of Sorrows Parish, Mercerville, N.J., and St. Michael Parish, Trenton. In 1986, Msgr. Tofani was appointed as diocesan director of the Society for the Propagation of the Faith and Holy Childhood Association, a position he continued to hold as diocesan director of missions, until his death. Msgr. Tofani visited over 25 developing countries in his role as diocesan director. Most recently, Msgr. Tofani was recognized during the 2013 Catholic Media Conference for his writing on mission work to the west African country of Benin, which was published in The Monitor. In 1994, Msgr. Tofani was named to his first pastorate at Blessed Sacrament Parish, Trenton, where he remained for eight years before being named parish administrator at Our Lady Queen of Peace, Hainesport. He was appointed pastor there in December of 2005. Msgr. Tofani was named Prelate of Honor of His Holiness (with the title of Monsignor) in 1997 and Episcopal Vicar for Burlington County in 2006 and 2010. In 2011, Bishop David M. O'Connell, C.M., appointed Msgr. Tofani as a member of the newly formed Episcopal Council for Clergy Personnel. Throughout his life, Msgr.Tofani (Fr. Rick) was an avid cyclist who regularly participated in the 500-mile Anchor House Ride for Runaways, making his 21st ride this year and saying that he was happy, to participate "in anything to help do our part to prevent what I think is one of the greatest evils in our culture- child abuse and the neglect of children." Fr. Rick is survived by two brothers, Edward (Colleen) and Gerald (Barbara), as well as nine nieces and nephews. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Society for the Propagation of the Faith, Anchor House Foundation or Our Lady Queen of Peace. All donations should be mailed to Our Lady Queen of Peace at the address above.

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Father Rick, I miss you every day and when I am alone in the house or take the dogs for a walk in the park I talk to you and hope you here me and are watching over me and the church you loved so dearly.... I can not believe it has been a year. I still look for you to come out for the Daily and Sunday Masses and still don't believe you are gone.

RIP Father Rick.
Love you and Miss you.

It is still difficult to accept it has been a year since your passing!You are thought of daily and prayed to often for guidance !hope you are Happy with our Heavenly Father and resting in peace!! Things are different at OLQP and I know you are telling us to embrace the change! Missed Dearly!

Father Rick was such a inspiration for my family.
He made our sundays real holy days with his very witty practical sermons and weekly missives.
We miss you so much. We love you.

I will miss you Father Rick , You helped me when I was way down and out . You got me back on the path.You were a true priest of the people . May god bless you Larry

You are still and always will be at Our Lady Queen of Peace, we see you every time when at Mass. Esther and Robert Lang

Father Rick babtized both of my daughters and recently Haley received her first holy communion from him. His passing saddens our family. He was a true gift from God. Rest in Peace Father. You will never be forgotten.

Fr. Rick (also known as my cousin Rick). To my cousins Ed and Jerry, I am sadden to hear of your passing and was upset that I was not able to attend the services of your brother. My prayers and sympathy are with you and your family. We all were very close and we will miss Rick terribly. Love Jenny Bonaccorsy

One of the things I was so impressed with where Fr. Rick was concerned was that you only had to be introduced to him once and he never forgot your name. Not only was he kind and loving and compassionate; he also was a brilliant speaker. I couldn't wait to get to church each week to hear him. Although we've been fortunate to have excellent priests on the alternate weeks when Fr. Rick didn't say the 10:30 Mass, we always knew we could count on him being outside to greet everyone as they...