Robert Louis Bender

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

One of the smartest I did in my life is to hire Bob in 1961 to be the State director of ADA in New Jersey and I considered him one of my best friends ever since! Ivan Backer

Dearest Patty,
I am so very sorry to hear this very sad news. I will always remember Bob's robust voice, enthusiasm, and passion for justice. He was a valuable member of our NJ Jobs With Justice, and I will never forget our JwJ training at the Highlander Center in TN. And I have such good memories of our bus trip and time together at SOA Watch at Ft. Benning with you both. You both were so important to our Solidarity Singers and the NJ IUC.
With Much Love,
Carol

Dear Patty. I'm so sorry to learn about Bob's passing and wish I had been in town last week to attend the memorial. I loved talking to Bob and always learned from him. It was always a pleasure to see you and Bob at all the meetings we attended. I enjoyed being at your 50th wedding anniversary party. I appreciated Bob's support and his willingness to answer my questions. I will miss him. All of our lives are diminished because his voice has been taken from us. Bob's staunch, progressive...

My deepest condolences to Patty and family. Holding precious memories forevermore.
Sharleen Leahey

I'm sorry that I couldn't be there for the memorial.
As sad as I was to hear this news, Bob's life is definitely one to be celebrated. He did SO MUCH for others and to make the world a better place for everyone. He sure made a Big Splash while he was here!!
I will always cherish his memory and friendship and I will sure miss his warmth and humor and powerful presence.
My love and deepest condolences to the family and to everyone who knew and loved Bob and was affected by him - And...