Robert "Bob" Brcka

Hello brother how are you doing? I guess you are doing good because now you have my mommy up there with you. I realy did need her Bobby, and not just for warching my kids like everybody thinks. Mommy use to help me when I had to talk about my problems, and she use to give me good advise about my kids. Now I am left here alone with my kids and I am so scared. The only person that I have is Melissa. I still can't beleive that mommy is not here. I don't understand how any body could take a good...

Bobby,

We know that you missed mommy as much as she missed you and now you have taken her under your wings....Thank you for giving us this last week to express to her how very much we love her. Although we will miss her deaply, we know that she is safe and happy to be with you and daddy once again. We love you and miss you all very much!!

Love Rich & Janet

Christmas Day is getting closer
But there's sadness mixed with joy
Every day a few more questions
From the little girls and boy's
Not alone, but they'll be lonely
For their little brother won't be here
And just like the air at Christmas
There'll be a chill upon the chill

Christmas without Bobby
Will be such a lonesome day
We'll send a prayer and
All our love to you so far away
Your family just wrote to...

Bobby,
I have not written to you in a while because I have been so busy working overtime this past two months. I realy miss you a lot brother. I guess now with Christmas coming I miss you a lot more because you always made the holidays fun for everyone. It just seems realy weird that I lost someone in my family that was so close to me. I have not lost anybody in my family in a very long time I guess the last death in my family I had to deal with was Daddy's. I wish that you and Daddy...

BOB,
I THINK ABOUT YOU EVERYDAY, I GO TO PICK UP THE PHONE TO CALL YOU AND THEN...I REMEMBER. I GO TO MAKE YOU CHILI AND THEN....I REMEMBER. SOMETIME IT DOESN'T SEEM REAL, AND THEN...IT HURTS. I MISS YOU, MY YOUNGEST SON. THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU DID FOR ME. I WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER AND WILL NEVER, EVER FORGET.
WITH MY DYING LOVE, MOTHER

HEY BOBBY, I NEVER KNOW HOW TO START THIS OUT, IT WAS BAD THANKSGIVING WITHOUT YOU HERE WITH US, AND I EXPECT CHRISTMAS WILL BE EVEN WORSE. I MISS YOU, WE ALL MISS YOU, I GUESS THATS WHY I WRITE IN YOUR BOOK HERE , I KNOW YOU ALREADY KNOW HOW VERY BADLY YOU ARE MISSED, ITS JUST THAT I FEEL LIKE I AM STILL"TALKING" TO YOU, YA KNOW? HAVE YOU SEEN BILL C? HE HAS COME TO JOIN YOU AND DADDY. TELL DADDY I MISS HIM HORRIBLY, AND I WOULDN'Y MIND IF YOU BOTH CAME TO VISIT. FOR REAL. WELL, MERRY...

Hello Brother,
I am sorry that I haven't written to you lately and I know that their is no excuses for it either. But you know that I miss you a lot. I guess the hard times are yet to come in these following two months, with Thanksgiving and Christmas coming up. I know that you are going to be here with us, but it's not the same like having you here in person. I keep on thinking about all the Holidays when you were here and how much fun everyone use to have with you. It's just not...

Hey BOO! I mean BOB, Happy Halloween! One of my favorite holidays was this week-end, and altho we had a great time, I know that something is always aching inside of me, and it's not the same. That's alright though because maybe it's not a bad feeling, maybe it's more like a full feeling, like you are right there with me, having a great time like you always did. So, maybe I was taking all those feelings and putting them in the wrong place.........I wasn't feeling sad and lonely.......I was...

Hi Bob!
I'm late writing in your book, but I didn't forget your birthday. In fact, we celebrated quite a bit that night. I only have this PC at work so I was not able to do that on the 25th. It was a day of a lot of different emotions. Mostly sad, but I did have a lot of happy memories. Which then, of course, made me sad. Things will never me the same, I know that, but it's still so strange because you are still VERY much a part of my everyday. We talk, laugh, cry, and remember every...