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Robert D. Coffey

Colchester, Connecticut

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Robert D. Coffey, a resident of Hebron, Connecticut, died on February 4, 2023. Bob was born in White Plains, NY on July 3, 1950, the first son of Robert E. Coffey and Madeline Barbara Deady Starch. He and his brother, Christopher Coffey, grew up in Brewster, New York and attended St. Lawrence...

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I am very sorry to hear of Bob's passing and extend my condolences to his lovely family. I had the pleasure of working with Bob in the Judicial Branch from the 1970s to my retirement in 2013. We were both attorneys and had many interactions throughout those years. Bob was exceptionally bright, had a great demeanor, and had a great touch in dealing with people. May God comfort his family in this sad time.

Lynn and Family - We were shocked and saddened, to hear about Bob. We´re so sorry for your loss. Such a good guy, always with a smile and a good word during our Hebron days; a true gift to his friends and cohorts. We´ll always remember him. Tom and TeeDee Covill

My deepest sympathies to the Coffey family. Bob was always kind to me and helpful when I worked for the judicial branch several years ago. He offered to be my reference for the position and he always stayed in contact with me afterwards. He will be missed.

I worked with Bob on the Retirement Commission. Bob was always kind and always treated me with respect. My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. He will be missed!

They don't come any better than Bob Coffey. A true gentleman. Steady and loyal. Steely, but with a light touch. Whether I came upon him at a scout meeting, at church, at a meeting with the Chief Justice or while he walked dogs on the Airline trail, I could always look forward to a great conversation: about a family he revered; about the law he was devoted to; or about our town or our mutual friends. Always spun with great humor, wisdom and optimism. You always left an encounter with Bob...

I am saddened to say goodbye to Bob, a man who brought joy and positivity wherever he went. His kind and warm spirit will be greatly missed. Bob lived life to the fullest and always had a smile on his face. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to Lynn and the entire family. I hope his memory brings you comfort as time passes. Rest in peace, you will be deeply missed.

The picture of Bob smiling is how I always remember Bob. We attended St Lawrence O´Toole grammar school together. We reconnected a few times at school reunions and I loved our catch up conversations and had made tentative plans to visit after our last meetup. I am shocked and saddened to hear of his passing. He had a wonderful outlook on life and I always felt a peace and happiness upon talking with him. The world is definitely poorer for having lost him but richer for having had his...

To say Bob was a prince among men is not high praise enough. Always a great laugh with a little devilment behind those eyes. Smart and thoughtful at all times. Bob was always steady, honest and loyal. A great friend and colleague. He loved you Lynn and was so proud of all three of you kids and your spouses and grandkids. My sympathy to all of you.

To Bob's family. I'm terribly saddened to learn this news. I've known Bob since last school and he was a colleague of the highest order. Whenever a question arose @ the Attorney General's Office, my employer, concerning Judicial, Bob was our contact. Most of all I'll miss our chance encounters @ Bushnell Park, checking in on family and enjoying the fruits of our labor and recreation. Even after retirement, he lent his experience to the SERC overseeing the State's pension system. Lynn and...